Visitation Dreams: Dreaming of Someone You Know Who Has Died

Have you ever dreamed of someone who has died and wondered whether they are actually communicating with you?

Today I thought I would explain these types of dreams (I call them visitation dreams) and help you understand them better, as well as assure you that you're not crazy if you find yourself talking to dead people in your dreams.

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Are Visitation Dreams Really Possible?

There is no scientific evidence that visitation dreams are actually possible. But that does not mean they are impossible! Ask any of the thousands of people who have had visitation dreams, and you will find that many people believe they are indeed real. There are also many well respected and well known psychics who will tell you that communicating with the dead in our dreams is very much indeed possible.

One of the common beliefs that the reason we have visitation dreams is because the dream world bridges the gap between the living and the spiritual worlds, making it easier for passed on loved ones to communicate with us.

However, there are also many beliefs that visitation dreams are not real, but more of a release dream, remembering the good things about a person, or expressing our love/sorrow for a person.

To help you understand the difference between visitation dreams and other dreams, I have decided to write a comprehensive post on this topic that will help you better understand the meaning of your dream of a deceased person.

A Few Examples of Visitation Dreams:

My first visitation dream was when I was six or seven years old. I don't really remember all the details of the dreams (it has been over two decades since the dream now!) - but I do remember my grandmother coming to me, telling me she loved me, and saying Good-bye. She didn't actually say good-bye, but I knew in the dream that was why she was there.

I woke up, knowing she was gone. Sure enough a few minutes later my mother called the house to let us know what I already knew from my dream.

My second visitation dream happened when I was 12 and involves my other grandmother, who called me on the telephone and left a message on the answering machine in the dream (yes, we still had answering machines back then!). It gave me a feeling of great love and excitement to hear from her. She was very clearly leaving me a message!

Since then, I've had a number of different visitation dreams, mostly from relatives and close friends who have passed on. In every visitation dream, there have always been some very clear characteristics of the dream for me to know it was truly a visitation dream and not just a release dream.

Some of the Common Characteristics of Visitation Dreams:

To help you identify whether your dream is indeed a visitation dream or just a regular release dream, I made a list of some of the common characteristics of visitation dreams.

The Dream Makes Total Logical and Sequential Sense: Dreams don't always make sense in the order of things happening. In a release dream for example, you might be flying one minute to driving a car the next. You don't see yourself go from flying to driving - you just are. In visitation dreams however it is different. Things are very logical and sequential. In one dream for example, I very logically walked down a street, then through a tunnel to where the deceased person was.

The Dream is Vivid and Feels Very Real: A visitation dream will feel like it's really happening and you will feel as if you are awake during the dream and aware of everything happening in the dream. If you have ever had a lucid dream, you will see some very similar characteristics. The dream will be very life-like and real feeling.

The Person Will Be Well: To dream of someone sick/injured usually means you are not having a visitation dream. This is because once someone passes away, they no longer have a body that can get sick or injured, and they have been reconnected with the energy of the universe. You will likely see them as they appeared in normal every day life.

There is Usually a Very Clear Message: Most of the time we will get messages of reassurance and love from those who have passed on. Occasionally we will get other messages, which we certainly should not ignore. After all, it takes a great amount of energy for someone's spirit to communicate with you. The message is usually quite clear and obvious - no need to waste time or energy! That is why my grandmother left a message on the machine, to ensure I would know she was trying to communicate with me. Sometimes, you will also just "know" in the dream the message, as I did with the first dream of my grandmother.

You Will Know it Is Not Just a Memory: You will usually feel a feeling that says "that was really them" - not just a memory of the person. If you feel like the dream was just remembering that person, it was probably not a true visitation dream.

You Will Wake Up With Feeling of Love and Peace: You will wake up with a sense of peace and love when you have a visitation dream.

How to Be Open to Having Visitation Dreams

If you are wondering how to have a visitation dream, there are some things you can do to help open yourself up to communicating with a loved one who has passed away. This is called "programming your dreams" and it is a good habit to do at night anyways, even when you are not looking to have a visitation dream.

Practice Meditation Before Bed: Meditation can greatly help you with calming your body and soul to help you be more open to receiving your dreams. Guided meditation can help you get started with meditation if you have never tried it before. You can also just try some deep breathing exercises which will help relax your body and your mind.

Affirm You are Open to Communicating With the Person: Sometimes you need to say affirmations that you want to see the person. This is because subconsciously you may be unsure or afraid of having such as dream. Say to yourself, "I am open to dreaming about [insert person here] and would like to receive a message from them" or another similar affirmation. It may take several attempts, but after several nights or weeks, this will increase your likelihood of dreaming about the person.

Have you had a visitation dream? What was your experience? Share your thoughts in the comments section below!


  1. gloria loudermilk says

    I have had visitation dreams from a dear friend, and my father and mother. My friend called me on the phone in my dream to tell me she was fine and we talked for hours it seemed. This was about 6 months after she died. My Dad called me in a dream 2 weeks after he had died and his voice was so clear that I absolutely knew it was him-no doubt.I believe that he came through to me so soon after his death because he (and I) are fans of Sylvia Browne and have read her books and believe that there is life after physical death. So we were prepared. My Mom passed and after 2 months I had not had a dream visitation from her and I was getting upset. Then I had a dream visitation from my dear friend again and in the middle of the dream she said “I think there is someone here that you want to see” and my Mom came in the dream-smiling and telling me she had just gotten her hair done and she twirled around to show me,and was gone. My friend just laughed and I was so grateful that she showed my Mom how to come thorough to me in a dream. My Mom was one of those ladies who always had their hair done in a beauty salon every week and when she no longer wanted to go, we knew she was incredibly ill. Since then, I have had 2 more visitation dreams from my Mom (now that she knows how!) and my Dad, too. All were extremely vivid, comforting, and left me feeling that they were fine and happy,and that they loved me.

    • Di says

      My Dad came to my dreams last night and we were talking on the phone and he said he was with my Granny ( she’s still alive) and that he was by her side while she was shopping, and that he would let me know when it’s her time to go and the he asked me what are my plans for the future etc… I asked him how was the other side but he didn’t say anything and knew it was my dad it’s been nearly 1 year since he passed away. Mis him everyday. LOVE YOU DAD

  2. Dee says

    Is it possible for somebody to have a visitation dream for somebody else or some that that related to the their partner?
    I’m boyfriend of many years has described to me what sounds a lot like a visitation dream, a very real dream from my nan who died 10 months ago who he had only met once. Im a very deep sleeper who rarely remembers my dreams where as my partner is a regular dreamer. The visitation was my nan asking a question about a current sitttution that she didnt known anything about when she was alive as she had alzheimer’s disease for the last 3 years which required 24 hour care. Can the dead ask questions in dreams?

    • Carrie says

      I do think it is possible to have visitation dreams about someone else , my fiance hadnt seen or talked to his grandmother in years she lived in va and we live in ohio he never had a way to get to her he had only talked about her once to me about when he was little , I had a dream of her she came to me talked to me clear as can be and asked me to tell him that she loved him and good bye and then i woke up i didnt think anything of it till 2 days later he received a phone that she had passed two days prior which would been about the time i had that dream i told him everything about the dream what she was wearing to how she had her hair fixed , he never was big on believe dreams till i told him all that how i had described her to him was just how he remembered her when he was little it was crazy and amazing at the same time that someone can do something like that so i def. think it is very possible as for the questions i dont see why not 😀

      • Cristal says

        I had a question about all of this recently I had a dream of my great grandfather, he was a very loving man and my siblings and I alway loved having him around but a few days ago I had a dream about him it wasn’t bad or anything and when I woke up I had a feeling of ease and happiness! The only thing that was a little weird was that in my dream my 1 year old son had gone missing and as soon as I got up to look for him there was a knock on my door and he was standing there with my son and many present, we spoke for a while he said he loved me and that he was going to go visit my mom next. The only thing that made me feel a little uneasy was the part with my son could there be an explanation for that?

  3. Mandy G says

    I’ve had visitation dreams recently, which is what lead me to this site. I wasn’t aware there was a difference but now I can tell which dreams were visitation dreams and which ones were just remembering. Lately, in the last week alone, I’ve had two dreams of an ex that’s passed on. He was a best friend for many years when we were young kids, then we dated shortly and lost touch when I moved. I hadn’t talked to him for several years when he died and it was very shocking news. I felt a lot of anger over his death (self inflicted) but he came to me a few months later. His visit was so “real” and I woke with a sense of peace, understanding. It was exactly what I needed. Since then, I’ve had a few other dreams from him, two in the last week. I’ve also had a visit from another best friend from high school. I’ve missed him dearly and used to go out to his gravesite every year. He came to me once and it was like we used to be. I felt comfortable with him, yet I knew he wasn’t alive. He talked to me about his wreck and told me about his experience. I wondered when I woke up, if it was really his “experience” or just my own imagination but there’s was a huge sense of peace with the dream.

  4. carl says

    i have read so many posts about animal and pet communication, I just recently lost my Rabbit called Obi,he was fine in the morning on Saturday then i found him slumped on the floor and he was struggling to breath and couldn’t lift his head , by the time i got him to the vet he passed away in my daughters arms just before the vet could get to him.Later that night i was on my sofa searching for answers on the internet i was on my own in the dark in tears, suddenly some of Obi’s fur floated in through the kitchen door and landed on my right hand i thanked him for showing his presence, was it Obi or just coincidence,i also read that if you ask your pet who has passed this life to visit you just so you know they are ok, so i asked for him to let me know if he was ok, i also asked my gran who passed away many years ago to help him find his way, i was so drained and upset i went to bed.

    0700 am my alarm went off i was so tired i pressed the snooze button which would last another 10 mins, as i dozed off i saw Obi at my feet glistening brown eyes looking up at me , hello Obi i said with great joy and happyness, i looked up and we were in some kind of wood or forest next to a tree with a whitish mist in front of us, Obi the looked at the mist then looked back at me , he did this twice after the second time he looked at the mist he turned and sprung up kicking his back legs out like his playful self and he went into the mist at the point he went i woke up and this time i felt like i was relived and some of the burden has gone there was still 6 mins left until the snooze alarm would go off , i thanked him for showing me he was ok and not in pain.

    Was this a dream visitation of obi telling me everything is going to be ok and he has found where he needs to go or is this the result of my concious thoughts from reading other peoples stories and post.
    will i ever see him again will we be together again when its my time or will he return in a different form how will i know.

  5. A says

    I had a very vivid visitation dream last week and I’m still a bit shaken up by it. I’m in a house that in real life I don’t recognize but it doesn’t feel foreign in the dream. There is a tall brown-haired man in his late 30s/early 40s with me but I don’t know who he is or what our relationship is supposed to be. Suddenly I hear a knock at the front door, which is painted white and has a similar design as this door ( The bottom is wood and the top is glass with wood outlining squares. As a result, you can see the through the top portion glass. When I hear the knock, I turn and look at the door and immediately recognize that it’s my grandmother who died 3 1/2 years go. I exclaim, “Oh my god, that’s my dead grandmother. Am I hallucinating? Am I seeing this, right?” I turn to the man with him and say “Do you see her too? Tell me she’s really here.” And he says, “I see her too. She’s really here.”

    I run to the door and open it and she’s standing there, smiling with a blue dress on with white on it. She looks like my grandmother did about 20 years ago. She’s heavier than she was when she died (as she was 20 years ago) and doesn’t appear to be suffering at all from Parkinsons (as she wasn’t 20 years ago). There may have been someone with her – standing behind her and a bit in the distance but I don’t know who this person is and I didn’t acknowledge them in the dream.

    I hug her as soon as I open the door. We embrace. It feels wonderful. I tell her, “I can’t believe you’re here! How are you here?” And she just smiles. We have a conversation that I can’t remember and she hands me a book. I look down at the book (I cannot recall what book this is) and when I look back up again to her – she’s gone. Disappeared into thin air.

    I wake up and immediately remember this dream and freak out because it was extremely vivd and real. It’s been over a week and it’s still extremely vivid and real and actually brought me to tears while writing this. I haven’t cried about my grandmother in years. I’m a bit upset I can’t figure out the message in this dream. We both loved books and I recently found a manuscript she wrote about our family history and I’m considering whether she was trying to communicate with me about that. I am known as the family historian and have been pondering how and if I should publish her manuscript. She also came to me in a dream 4 days after she died but the only thing I remembered is that she told me to stop crying because she’s happy. The next morning I woke up and didn’t cry again about her until 3 1/2 years later when I had this dream.

    • Latrese says

      I’m just finding this site, but I hope you decided to publish the book. Also the man you didn’t recognize, is it possible that he was an ex boyfriend? I hope you found your answers, probably in the book.

  6. Terri says

    I dreamed that I layed in my bed watching TV with my dead father.We held hands in a very natural and comfortable way. He told me he had to leave soon because his boyfriend was waiting for him. But he wasn’t gay, I am. He died before I came out of the closet.I think wanted give his approval.

  7. ali says

    some might think its crazy but last night i dreamed Paul Walker and the dream was so real and i actually felt everything.i still have the chills on my my dream i was with my husband in a hotel and we were looking for a room,then he suddenly dissapeard and i went looking for him,i was so upset couse he left me alone.i couldnt find him inside and i went outside.outside there was Paul with other 2 or 3 guys next to a metal chain fence and they were all looking at me.Paul was standing up dressed with a black leather jacket and with the hands in his jeans pockets ,another guy with black medium hair was sitting down with something to drink in his hand.Paul looked at me,(i was so scared)and put his hands on my back and he took me down the street and he was tryng to show me something but i couldnt see bicouse it was dark outside and only the a street light was open,but he was tryng so hard to tell me something and he tried to push me down the street but i was to afraid to go.i turned my head to the left and there was an old blue ford pick up truck.i looked in the back there was no hotel anymore ,there was an old house and the entry had no door and had no light.Paul was still pushing me so hard down the street and i got scared and i ran to that entry and when i tried to get in i could couse suddenly in front of that entry appeard a big mountain of dirt.I climbed up on and try to give land to the side so I can go in,but i couldnt and I slipped back.i turned around they were looking at me and Paul smilling told me that its not easy to go through that door and then i woke up.They were upset and the house was at crossroad.I still remeber the words”THERE IS NO POINT ON DOING THAT”.
    i never met him but i was and still am upset couse he died.the dream was so real that i thought it was acctually real.its like all 3 were waiting for something or someone…….sorry for my english…

  8. ali says

    i have many vivid dreams and sometimes i have dreams that will happen after a month or a week.some call it deja vu.
    but i never dream the lottery numbers:)))))))

  9. ali says

    every time i dream my brother(he died 14 years ago) something bad happens.its like he is warning me through my dreams.i know it sounds weird but it is true.and once i was soooooo upset and crying and i felt like a warm hand on my back and suddely i felt good ,i just stopped crying and i knew everything was going to be ok and it was.i just couldnt believe.

  10. claire says

    hi i think i may have had my dad come to me in a dream last nite but not sure if it was real. he just turned round and give me the biggest smile u could get and he looked younger but really happy and i said in the dream arnt u dead and he said yes.. he then said something about 2 weeks but dont no wot it was thats the first time in 15 years i have ever dreamed about my dad… he looked so loving and very bright we was both happy in the dream x

  11. Judith says

    I actually had two visitation dreams:
    The first dream:
    When I was younger (in the second grade), I dreamt that I was at a cook-out at my grandparent’s house. I was outside in the backyard when my Grandmother asked me to tell my cousins, who were inside the house, that it was time to eat. So, I headed upstairs through the back door, walked through the kitchen and passed the bathroom. As I was walking past the bathroom, the light was on and there was my Grandfather shaving himself. I proceeded to walk past the bathroom, through the dining room ( which was right in front of the living room, where my cousins were) and took a seat in a chair that was near the front door (I was so confused, because I knew that he passed away, so how could I see him shaving in the bathroom). My Grandfather turned off the light in the bathroom, and walked out. He looked over the chair and gave me a smile and said, “Goodbye Karen”, and walked out of the front door.
    I will never forget this dream, I remember it as it was yesterday. I realized that he was trying to say goodbye to me (I had a real hard time with his death… it was my first experience)(also, there was a lot of confusion… I often wondered why were we partying and he just died… of course many years later I realized that we were just celebrating his life). I dreamt the exact same dream again, trying to saying good bye to him after he said it to me (but that is what I cannot remember… if I was able to say goodbye or not… I think that I did, because I never dreamt about him again, or maybe if I didn’t get to say it to him, he understands what I was trying to do).

    My other dream:
    I often visited this Jamaican store with my mother, when I was younger. There was a room in the back, where my grandfather and some other men often played dominoes/cards (I cannot remember exactly) and I would always go back there and give him a hug.
    In my dream, My mother and I went to the same Jamaican store to get a few things, and when I walked near the deep freezer, I heard the voices and laughter of some men. So, I walked to the back room (standing in the door way), and there was my Grandfather, sitting down playing a game with his friends (I’m not sure if he said anything to me, or just smiled at me). I slowly walked out of the room and leaned on the deep freezer, baffled once again, because I knew that he died, so how could I see him playing games with his friends.
    I’m not really sure of the order of the dreams, but I would like to thank you, for allowing me to re-live some wonderful memories of my dear Grandfather.

  12. Anita says

    If have dreamt of my long passed grandfather,I speak to him only and ask him how is it possible you are here and he has just smiled, never spoken out to me. Is this some kind of message?

  13. Connie says

    Throughout my life, I have had premonition dreams about death that all came to fruition, as well as visitation dreams from the deceased. Just last night, I dreamt about my ex-husband who recently passed from cancer. We had not spoken for about 17 years. Although he was very much a part of our child’s life, there was no closure on how our marriage ended. He lived and died with no remorse for how he had abused me in our marriage. As good as he was to our daughter, he and I had unresolved issues. This visitation dream changed everything. He came to me in peace, his face filled with happiness and his spirit whole. I could see and sense that there was no longer any trace of the troubled man he was here on earth. He reached out and placed his hand on mine. No words were spoken, but the message was crystal clear. I awoke feeling a sense of peace and closure that I had never felt before. As I told my daughter, now 21 this dream; tears welled up in her eyes. There was a time I wondered why I had such morbid premonitions, why the deceased always come to me in my dreams. I now understand why.

  14. says

    I have had loads of dream visitations and they are doubt one of the most strangest and surreal experiences I have ever had. Every time I think about my experiences I get a warm glow and a feeling of awe.

  15. vanessa says

    i dreamed about my son’s father i sat in a car and watched him run around and around he seemed confused or in a hurry around some blue apartments i don’t think he knew i was there because he never looked at me but for some reason i waited and watched as if he was going to get in the car but i never honked i woke up about 3 am i sat up thinking what was that all about weird i thought to myself and went to bed later i found out later he was shot and found dead at some apartments the same color i dreamed of at the exact time i woke up from my dream he was dying? what does that mean? what was he trying to say? i have had dreams of him after that but i can’t ever see his face or hear his voice/ i remeber one dream i heard his voice over the phone and he said i was mad at him
    he hugged me and i cried in his arms i need to know what and why he tried to tell me? can anyone answer that

  16. Breanna says

    My Mother passed away suddenly, two months ago. I had my first dream about her a few nights ago. I’m not sure if it was a “visitation dream” however, in my dream, my Mother was alive and sitting in a chair (in the hospital, where she died), and I saw her hand and I held her hand. I was relieved to know she was “alive”. The dream seemed very “vivid” to me, as I remember every detail. Was this a “visitation” dream? Was she letting me know that she is okay?

    • Sarah says

      I would say so. Sorry for your loss. Take heart that she is always with you. It seems like they appear during abnormally tough times or because you can’t stop thinking about her

  17. GG says

    Let me start off by saying I am a teenager. I am very close with my next-door neighbors, their whole family taking me in as one of their own. A family member of theirs passed away a tad bit over a year ago at the age of 19. I haven’t seen him in YEARS, but just the other night I had a dream about him. In my dream, I was over at my neighbors house getting ready for an event (my neighbor does hair & makeup). As I was leaving, I walked out the front and saw “him” in the car of his parents. (his parents aren’t my neighbors) In my dream, I knew he passed away but I still said hi to him, and he said hi back. He then appeared at my side and walked me home. Before I went inside, he told me how gorgeous I looked to which I had said thanks. I then walked up the steps to my house and when my mom opened the door, I turned around to see “he” was gone. That was the end of my dream and I had woken up, and after reading this article I know that it was a visitation dream. :)

  18. Celia says

    Thanks for this guide! What you said about the visitaion dream is so true, it really feels as if that person is there, and its a much clearer dream than even a lucid dream. I dreamt of my dad shortly after he passed. Actually I had two, but the first dream I just was taking in the details of him because he looked ao well and that is how I wanted to remember him, not as the sick man he was at the end. The second dream was much more amazing. I asked him “how do I know its really you and not just part of my dream” (I asked this because of how real he seemed). He answered “ask mum about the slippers”. It took me a few weeks before I asked my mum, because I felt a bit silly but she knew right away what I was talking about. She said that he had a pair of new slippers which he ended up not wearing because he became so very ill at the end and were given to a friend of my mothers after he died.

  19. Celia says

    I would agree. The link you posted to that door was historic house parts! Sounds like a big message to me.

  20. Pina Petrolo says

    Our brother-in-law and my husband’s business partner passed away about 4 months within 3 weeks of being diagnosed with Cancer. My husband has had several dreams however the most recent one was the longest and most clear. My husband was in his office at work and our brother-in-law walks in and my husband is shocked to see him. He tells him he died and was cremated but my brother-in-law insists that it wasn’t him and when asked where he’s been all these months just answers he’s been away. He asks to be brought up to speed on what’s been going on at work since he left. They go about their day, go over files and then leave for a job site, and it ends when he woke up. Two things that stood out to my husband was that, as in previous dreams he always goes to stand in a specific spot. He operated machinery and he always stands in an unusual spot never where he usually stood. Another thing was when they left to go see a client they’re happen to be 2 identical cars and he was going towards the wrong one. Was could this mean? Is he OK?

  21. Christina says

    My mother passed 9 months ago. I am sharing with my dad and siblings the dreams we have had of her. This article hits on all the points. It’s amazing. I haven’t heard from her in a few months. Thanks for sharing about the meditation and such. I am going to try that!

  22. Elizabeth says

    I’ve had two dreams that have stuck with me. I’m glad to give them a name now, because I’ve always felt that they weren’t just dreams. They were indeed visitations.
    The first one was just all black and my grandmother’s face appeared and came very close to my face and she said, “Remember…cling to the Holy Family.” She was a very faith-filled woman, so it made total sense for her to say this. I immediately woke up and I remember feeling as if I had actually heard her voice, felt her whisper, close to my ear. That entire day, I couldn’t shake the feeling that something was wrong. When I returned home after work, there was a message on my voice-mail saying Grandmom was dying and I needed to fly home.
    The second visitation dream I had was a year ago. My husband and I were going through some difficulties. In my dream, my husband and I were at the beach. We were in the ocean, trying so hard to break through the waves to get to the shore, but it was too difficult, and we were struggling. I looked to my right, and there was my dad (who had passed away about 6 years prior). He was about 10 feet down the shore, dressed in a beautiful, bright white gown, and he just glided gently and easily through the waves and onto the shore. He looked right at me with a meaningful look, like he was saying, “Look. Things are hard in life and you will struggle. But, look at me. It gets easier.” It was amazing and very powerful for me. Not only did it give me encouragement but also comfort that he is in a good place.


      Your visitational dream totally directs your message to be beautifully understanding and clear of day for what message was being brought forth to you:

      1. Dream was totally about your marriage problems
      2. You and your husband in the ocean battling rough tides/waves represents you cant break threw them tides unless you 1st know how to take the rough patches away and toss them from your marriage. Therefore you were being told no matter how much you try how hard you try if you do not fix the patch your marriage will sail. Also could be telling you that your husband and you wont work out no matter how much you try ( thus cant break threw the tides/waves in the dream).

      Significant picture elements to view as to clarify this dream:
      1. Strong waves/tides: Problems in your marriage
      2. struggling to swim: Its an sinking marriage to let go or an sailing one if held onto
      3. your father in your dream sails easily over the waves onto shore: His rights and dues have been clarified in the Holy name therefore he has nothing left to repent for which could be telling his status of being alright along with or, hes using his sail across to show you to follow in his foot steps to approach your marriage in same directional steps he wld of taken if it were him in your shoes, could also be that hes telling you as you believe( that you can get beyond difficult struggles within your marriage if you stay trying), or could represent to let go and sail on alone since your marriage has 2 many struggles to endore to having to hold onto it bc no matter what you do; it wont work thus he shows you the path to take is to move on instead of letting your husband hold you back and or could show your being held bk from doing what your inspired to what to do by your husband and your dad wants you instead to stay moving forward not to let your hubby hold you bk from what you must be moving forward to do.
      4. What your dad was wearing aka white gown: The white gown clarifies the msg comes from an good person aka a person who truly is him in your dream. White is known to be signified to shining bright light in a dream while dark very well cld mean an haunting dream. To where white symbolizes that he is doing well is concerned about you and your marriage along with it represents he brings forth his msg in the most honest way he can provide.
      5. looked at you: symbolizing either his passage saying hey watch on how to make it to shore aka watch on how or where your marriage is going to stand as for status wise, or either to distinct you in the direction to see opposite of what your assuming.

  23. Carrie says

    My father committed suicide almost five years ago, and I’ve never really come to peace with his death. I have accepted that he is no longer here, but to fully accept that someone who projected himself as this happy, laughing, wonderful person is no longer here is difficult. He killed himself after he and his second wife divorced, and she invited a new man to live in the house where they had lived together (which was his house, but he was letting her stay there until she picked up the pieces of her life, because she was a recovering alcoholic who had relapsed: the main reason for their divorce). This new man even shared his name.

    I new my dad was unhappy, but had I really looked I would have seen the signs. SHOULD have seen the signs. We spent a lot of time together before he died. He helped me paint my entire house (finishing up business and making sure I was taken care of), then we went to visit my sister who lives a thousand miles away. I took pictures of him and his first grandson, and when we were finished he said, “There, now he’ll know what his grandpa looked like.” I looked at him funny and said, “Why wouldn’t he know what his grandpa looked like?” I thought he meant because we didn’t see them very often.

    The last time I saw him was on Father’s Day in 2009, the day after my birthday, and a couple days before his birthday. I gave him a hug and kiss as I passed, but I didn’t sit by him, because there was only one open seat and my husband and I sat together. I rode home with him, and he dropped me off, and when I was leaving I leaned over and hugged him and he squeezed me very tight and long, and his voice cracked as he told me he loved me. I pulled away. Why? I am not extremely comfortable with demonstrative behavior. I have a hard time showing my feelings and communicating my deeper emotions. I told him I would call him on his birthday, but he said he was going on a trip, and he would probably be out of service. My greatest regret is thinking that he died not knowing that he was my hero, that I loved him more than he could possibly know, that he was the best father anyone could ask for, even if he was not perfect.

    Five days later I learned that he had died in a car accident, the day before his birthday. At first, my aunt and uncle tried to keep the fact that he’d killed himself from me, but as I cried, those little things came back and I knew he had killed himself.

    The first visitation dream I had was within the first six months after he’d died. It was the first dream I’d ever had where I knew I was dreaming. In the dream I was at a family function, although I do not know who was there. They were nameless, faceless, background people who I now think must have been other loved ones who have already passed on and whom he was with. In the dream, I knew that he should not be standing there, because he was dead. I asked him if I was dreaming, and he said yes. I asked if he was in heaven, and he said yes. Then his eyes started to glow with this amazing light, like his soul was shining through. I woke feeling such an extreme sense of peace and happiness knowing that he was in heaven.

    But still I wrestled with guilt and grief and sadness. I had another dream about him. This time we were back in the car the day we’d said our last goodbye, and I was crying and begging him not to do it, because this time I knew what was going to happen, but he just said he had to. I think this dream was him telling me that I could not have changed what happened, that it was his time and he could no longer be happy on this plane. It was time to move on to eternal happiness with God in Heaven.

    Those dreams brought me peace, and made me believe without a doubt that he was in God’s arms. I am not a religious person, and I have at times doubted his existence, although I generally believe in a higher plane of life.

    The dream that really made me believe, however, was the one on Father’s Day last year. It was four years since I had seen him. In my dream I saw Dad, and I remember asking for a sign that was undeniable proof that he was truly visiting me, that he was all right and in Heaven. Suddenly I was in the eye department of the clinic where I worked (in a different department) and different building, and I received a call from the number 444-444-4444. Strange…not really proof, right? Until I googled the phone number and came to a youtube video about a man who gets a call from this number, and it turns out to be a ghost who says, “I’m watching you.”

    I think it took a full day before I could feel my feet again. I had never heard of the movie that this clip came from (it was an Asian man and in a different language). The message was clear: Dad is watching over me.

    I dreamed again two nights ago, as we come closer to June when he died and all those memories are stirred up. I have been thinking about him a lot, and feeling the guilt anew. He came to me in my dream, but this time was so different. I knew I was dreaming, like I do when he is in my dreams, but I commented to him that it was so real. I remember falling asleep, because I had been woken about 6 am by my husband’s alarm. I turned over and fell asleep again, but as soon as I turned over it was like I had stepped into a doorway into another dimension. It was so immediate, like leaving one world behind and entering a new one. As soon as I stepped into the door, my dad appeared like he had stepped through an invisible doorway himself. I knew so clearly that I was dreaming, but also that I had never felt a dream so real feeling, so intensely real like I was not dreaming, but actually SOMEWHERE ELSE.

    We were in a vague room that was light and bright, and I was telling him I was sorry and hugging him and crying. I did not tell him why I was sorry, specifically, but I think he knew why I was sorry: for not telling him when he was alive how much he truly meant to me. He just hugged me, and I think I started to wake up, because he was started to leave, and I clung to his leg like a little girl might, sitting on her dad’s foot when she is small. I didn’t want him to go, but he had to go, but he promised that he would come back in two days. That is tonight, and I am very anxious and nervous and hopeful that he will come back. I just hope that his two days and mine are the same.

  24. Sharon says

    I had a vision of my father when I was dying, and I had a vivid dream about my son that was so vivid I woke up crying and called my son and told him to stay away from anyone who wanted to do him harm and make sure not to get i to any trouble with the police. My dream was so vivid it was the third dream like this I had about my son who is still alive, the first two came true so I warned him this time. So far this dream has not came true and hopefully it will never come true.

  25. Diana says

    I think I had my first ever visitation dream two nights ago. My father just passed away on March 4, 2014 following an extended illness for which we had to call in a compassionate care team and according to his wishes make him comfortable and allow him to slip off into a better world. About a week ago, I visited his grave and I asked him to give me a sign to let me know we did the right thing and he is in a much better place and where he wanted to be free from the pain and agony of the lung disease that was leaving him with no quality of life. Two nights ago, I had a dream that was completely unexpected! I was awoken in the very early morning from the very vivd dream and I was crying and out of breath from excitement of actually “seeing” my father. In the dream, me, my mother (still living), my siblings and our families were all at a concert enjoying our evening. The singer walked down a long catwalk from the mainstage to a center stage centered in the middle of the theatre. We were in the front row of the balcony. As the singer approached the center stage the seats in front of the main stage electronically turned around to face her and there was a spotlight shining on one person in what now became the front row which drew your eye to that person. She was singing a perfectly fitting song for missing someone (which I am racking my brain to recall…you know how you sometimes only remember bits of the dream). At that moment, I started crying in my dream. Crying with excitement and yelling its Dad everyone, look its Dad! Its Grandpa! There he sat looking the very same as he did in very recent days…same jacket he always wore. He looked happy! He was smiling and looking up at us in the balcony as he waved and we were all waving and crying with excitement to see him. It was at that moment that I awoke from my dream and was actually crying and breathy with the same exciting feeling of getting to see him again. I feel like that was the sign I asked for and that he was trying to wave and smile and let us know he is OK. He seemed happy! My tears of excitement to see him kind of transitioned into tears of sadness because it has made me miss him even more…perhaps because it is still recent and the reality of the rush of our every day has thrust me right back into the real world without enough time to grieve. I have visited his grave a couple times since and thanked him for the sign and asked him to keep them coming. I think they will help me to heal and eventually not have any sadness, but excitement to “see” him again! It was a bitter sweet dream…so good to see him and see him happy, yet sad to be missing him so! I really feel like it was a visitation dream…it felt so real in and right out of the dream! I certainly did not expect this, but it was a nice surprise. My sister keeps saying, “I wish I would get a sign.” She is also questioning what she believes now. Doesn’t even know if heaven is real or if she will ever see our Dad again. For me, I believe now more than ever and will definitely stay open to receiving these signs and visitations! It makes me feel like he is still here and trying to communicate with us! My Mother and I are headed to a Kellie Pickler concert at a small local theatre next Friday and we have seats in the front row of the balcony. It will definitely be on my mind! I think he would be happy that my Mother and I are spending that quality time together…he knows how much she loves Kellie Pickler. Who knows, maybe he will send another sign at the concert…maybe he will send a message through her singing to us!

  26. Sara says

    I too have had several visitaions from my Dad, Grandmother and of a friend who died very recently. With my Grandma…well first of all it was October 1991 and I was to return to my Aunts’ house where my grandma was living. She told me that she would not be there when I returned for thanksgiving(she died Nov. 11). I still went to my Aunt’s house to pack up my grandma’s things and I always slept in the same room as she. The windows are long and with a thin shade over them. In the middle of the night I heard someone call my name and I woke up to this bright sunny light and my granny was standing there..healthy not the skinny person she had become before she died but she still had her cane and glasses and as I think of it I think it was so I woud recognize her. She told me that I will be okay and she was doing great. But she was standing with a me he looked like Jesus and he looked straight ahead.. no emotion or anything on his fave. He was wearing a burlap type outfit with sandals. In the morning I told my aunt what happened and she did not doubt that she came to visit me. Then I found out that she had told my aunt that out of all the grandkids I was her favorite.
    My Dad has visited me a few times but the last time I walked through a door and instantly I was in a vineyard in Italy under a huge tree with my Dad sitting and drinking glass of wine. He told me that he was just checking up on me and that he was also fine. The scenary was very beautiful and since he was an avid traveller in life, being in Italy was no surprise to me.

    My friend Rance who died…He was living in an aprtment builing in the city but all of the residents were dead. I helped him paint his kitchen and then we heard someone had just moved in next door. So we went over to greet him. Rance NEVER met a stranger.Nice guy!!! So we go next door and the guy who died was do upset…I just assumed because he died.. he looked about 32 years old. His apartment was very drab with just a table couch and a bed. So Rance had this great idea..we went back to his apartment and got some very colorful wall ornaments that Rance was not going to use and took them to the new guys place. By the time we left at least the guy had a smile on his Face and Rance told him that he would show him around later but I had to go soon ad we had to finish painting the kitchen. I thought it was interesting I could not stay past a cerain hour. Rance and I painted and talked until it was time for me to go…we hugged and he said we shall visit again soon. I walked out the door and I woke up. I have no doubt in my mind or heart that the dead speak to us…thank goodness :)

  27. Siobhan says

    Last night i dreamt that an old friend who died on my sons birthday near 4 years ago… He was so in love with this one girl when he was alive. And since dying his brother has recently had a baby.
    Anyway my dream felt so real, he was with me standing in aroom with another male. He just appeared saying heres my photo. Its next to hers (pointing at a pic of his girlfriend) i just looked as if to say your gone??? But i never said the words. I spoke away to him and he pointed to the pic of his girlfriend, then one of his brother & one of his baby niece and says to me these 3 are the most important people ever to me, i love them all to bits you know, he smiled! Says hes always watching over them, then spoke of me now being married etc.
    It was such a realistic dream i awoke feeling like this had actually happened… And he was just passing a message onto me to say hes fine and still looking overthe ones he loves. Would you agree?

  28. Jean says

    I’d never heard of visitation dreams before, but when I told my daughter what I experienced early this morning, she sent me this website. Unbelievable! I walked into a room and my darling husband, who passed away exactly 3 months earlier, was sitting in his chair, smiling and looking healthy. I asked him “What are you doing here? How wonderful to see you!” Went to sit on his knee, kissed the side of his neck, and hugged around his body. His face looked a bit thin and his body felt thinner than usual, but it was all so real and vivid that I’ve told everybody about it during the day, and have felt happy and positive all day long. I’m telling people that my Jim’s spirit took 3 months to circle around the globe and now has come home to me. Now when I look at the many photos of him I have around me, instead of crying, I say to him “You’re home”.

  29. celeste says

    I had a dream the other day (although I was awake!). It terrfies me, I woke up at -6.15 and looked at the clock. I then saw a line of people walking past my bed. I noticed the third one down was my late husband and as he reached me I lent out to grab him but my hand just went through his body. He walked over to me and said, come with me. I said no and he repeated it, I again said no. I didn’t move, but he then walked around the bed and got in next to me, behind me and held my hand. I said I miss you and he said I know , I miss you too. He then got out of bed and stood in front of me and said come with me, again I said no, He said okay, see you later and he re joined the line of people and disappeared. I then heard my husband move next tome and I asked him what the time was, he said 06.17. I know I was awake, but am left with a terror of what he meant by come with me and see you later. I was very scared and I didn’t move the whole time.

  30. Diana says

    I had dreamed of someone I knew she was my grandma but not by blood. There was a personal problem so my mother separated from her son And I haven’t seen her in about 8 years or so till I found out last year that she died of cancer.after she had passed away . I dreamed of her about three times.In my dream I am in her house we are sitting beside each other am on the couch she is in her chair that she used to sit in everyday. Well she is there sitting upward but her head in tilt down and her eyes are closed. She says nothing but I can start to feel what she is feeling which is a hug train wreck of sadness emotion that I can not handle so I begin to sob and get up to walk away because I just can’t handle it. In those three dreams she is silent with her head down and eyes close and the vibe, energy feels so sad? I never got to thank her or say good bye I miss her. My mother dreamed of her as well but in her dream she was angry maybe we just kept thinking of her but I would like your opinion people say dreams don’t mean anything but I feel like sometimes they can.

  31. Julie says

    After reading these comments, I realize now that I, too, had a visitation last night from my best friend who passed. It will be nine years in June. In this visitation, I was standing still while a crowd of people I did not know, is coming toward me. In the middle, was my friend, as beautiful as ever, before she got sick, smiling wearing her crisp white blouse and sporting her long red hair, just the way she always did. I yelled out her name, she came to me, we hugged so tight, I didn’t want to let go, and I told her “I miss you so much”. She said, “Everything will be okay”. I woke up. I keep thinking about this visitation all day. What does this mean?

  32. says

    I sat watching my TV, I saw my Mother who had passed a year before stood near my armchair .. I was so shocked I got up to hug her, I asked her over and over ”How have you got here’ She told me my Father was here too..

    I hung tightly onto her crying ,like a four year old child .. She told me’ don’t cry everything is okay, my Father was sat in a car outside my home, he looked so well and happy ..

    I asked him how have you managed to come to see me, he told me ”What you think is’ My Mother walked me back into my house and told me to ‘Tell the other’s’ I begged her to not leave me, she told me’ We are never far away, and you are always in our thoughts .. She then began to fade and disappear, I cried with both happiness and sorrow when she left me…

    This experience that felt so real to me happened one year following their deaths. They died in 1994, to this very day my experience with their visit to me will remain for me a ‘Precious Gift’

  33. Kerry says

    I dreamt I was in a room and as I turned round my mum suddenly materialised in front of me. I felt really happy as she passed 9 years ago. I gave her a big hug and thought to myself how nice it was to hear her voice again. The only part of the conversation I can remember though is I asked her how dad was if she had seen him. I felt excited and expected her to tell me they were together but her voice sounded resigned and she said no she wasn’t with him and hadnt seen him and then she mumbled something like I haven’t seen anyone. I have woken up today and feel really sad and quite tearful the thought my mum could be in some sort of purgatory on her own resigned to loneliness. Dad would never abandon her he adored her and always felt her with him after she died.

  34. Bonnie says

    My dear life long friend lost a mental battle he had been fighting for years. Unfortunately, he took his life to release those inner voices and no one ever really understood how much pain he was in, but I always had and never judged him for it. I was only 18 when my friend took his life, and everyone critisized how selfish it is to decide when it was “right” to pass away. I am 23 now, and I, for some strange reason, never cared and was never angry at him for what he did. Of course I was devastated when I had heard the news and wished he had reached out to someone, but I was mostly concerned about where he was now, and if he felt better and if he was happy. Well, last night I had the honor of having him visit me in my dream. And boy! did it feel real. He gave me a hug, and smiled his beaming smile. He seemed relaxed and looked like the 19 year old boy I had last known him to be. He did not say much, just a simple hello and a hug and he remained next to me for the rest of my dream. When I woke up in the morning, I still felt him next to me. It took a while for the feeling to finally evaporate, I wish he’d stayed longer. However, I am very happy and pleased that he chose me to visit. My mom and grandmother are a big believers in spirits and angels, they both say that when someone visits you in your dream it means that they have chosen to be your guardian angel and that we are their mission to protect. Because it was such a lovely time seeing, feeling, and hearing him again, I’d like to think and believe that is the case.

  35. says

    i had a dream of my grand parents, who are dead ryt now.
    In that dream i was crying to meet them and was asking god to please help me in meeting my grandparents. After a while the visited me n we realy enjoyed.
    Still miss them……………:(

  36. Sabrina says

    I had a visitation dream of my husband I do believe. It took like 2 weeks for him to come to me in my dreams after his death.
    I was crying and crying when I seen him…i could not control myself, he grabbed me so tight as i was like yelling “WHY??? WHY???” and “WHAT HAPPENED???” He just held onto me say “Shhhh, everything is going to be okay I promise” he said it so effortlessly and calm…i then stopped crying but felt it in my throat and we went to his dads car, got in and started driving around. Then I woke up feeling him, glad I got to see him but so so very much sad that his is gone.

    ~R.I.P. D.J.M.~

  37. Shan says

    I had a very vivid dream of the father of a friend a few nights ago. I am searching the internet now to try to figure out how and why.

    My friend died 15 years ago. I was the funeral director and it was very difficult. I would see the family on occasion, never regularly.
    A few nights ago I had the most powerful dream. I woke up my partner to tell him because it was so strange. My friend who died was there but the person brining me places was his father – he was so happy. It was so real. I had not seem his dad since Paul died. When I woke up I figured that maybe Paul was trying to contact me. So I googled his name to find his birthday because I could not remember. When I googled his basic info his father’s picture came up immediately. He just died two months ago – at 59. I do not know the circumstances of his death. I had no idea. I think he was trying to let someone know he is okay. I am currently trying to find his family to tell them.

  38. Kat says

    I used to have a boss (a lady) who I got on with extremely well. I was very upset when she was made redundant. She didn’t live nearby so we lost touch. some years later I had a dream about her. I didn’t think too much of it so can’t remember much detail, but it did make me think of the good old days. I said to my husband that it was strange that I should just dream about her. It wasn’t as if anyone at work had been talking about her. That night I went to bed, I dreamt that my husband and I had gone to see her. We knocked at the door and she opened it with and smiled. Come in she said. Her husband was sat with her and her Grandaughter was playing quietly. She seemed very busy so I said to my husband “come on let’s go as Janet is busy with her family. We got up to go and she said “don’t go, I want to show you something, come on”. I thought it was strange that her husband was with her as he had left her about a year before she was made redundant and had gone to live with this younger woman. She had been upset about it as she really loved him and told me it was better second time around as she had been married before. She opened the side door and beckoned my husband and i to follow them. They were happily walking along the lovely green grass – she was encouraging me to follow her when all of a sudden I was walking through a small archway and came to an abrupt stop as the earth had been dug away and there was a green carpet laid out into it. I nearly fell into the hole. I looked at her at the other side of the hole and said “why did you do that”. At the time in my dream I didn’t think cemetery or death – all I was thinking is where is Janet taking me. I felt really hurt that she wanted me to fall into this hole. When I awoke I told my husband that I had another dream of her. He went into the kitchen to start the breakfast.
    Having had phsychic feeling before (not always about dead people) but that someone will come today that I haven’t seen for years and they do and a strange experience when my father died. I said to my husband “I hope she hasn’t died”. I got my iPad out and typed obituaries, her name and town and it came up right away. She had died the week before. The obituary notice said she leaves a loving husband? They must have got back together as in my dream. I rang work and told them and the girls couldn’t believe she had died. After I thought about the dream I realised the archway could be part of a cemetery. The green carpet is what they put over the newly dug grave. In my dream she was ok, happy and content. It was as if I had really been there. It was so crystal clear and if I was an artist I could even have drawn the furniture, where her husband sat etc. I had never been to her house so maybe it wasn’t even her house. All I know is that the dream was so strong and real that there must be something after we die.

  39. anonymous says

    I had three to four dreams with my deceased cusin.the first one was just a surprise that i could see him but by the rhird one i knew i was dreaming and actually told him that i was and that i was going to wake up he miled and just laughed.i had another dream last night and i told him again that he was dead and he stared at me like i was crazy .but i also see other family members there that are not dead.i could have up to two or three dreams and he would be in all of them in one night.And i was actually waiting and knew that i was going to wake up eventually. I actually looked up at the sky in my dream and visibly saw the sky change ,the clouds passing faster until i saw it change into the ceiling of a room and then i saw my current living wife look down at me and i woke up .Me and ny cusin were really close i consider him my brother .those thi mean anything can anyone help me please!!!!!

  40. Destiny says

    When I was 16 a family friend died of cancer and I went to the funeral . As looked at her face it did not look like the same lady I new I didn’t even cry I was just in shock and that visual of her face wouldn’t leave my mind for three days I kept seeing her face . On the forth day I had a dream she was sitting in the park with my grandma and friends an I walked into the park and saw them I went up to all them and gave them a kiss like aI would normally do In reality when I walked into the park and see all of them. When I saw her I look at her and she looked like the way I remembered her and I said “wow it’s like you never left ” she told me I’m doing fine . I woke up feeling way better and the visual of her in the casket left my mine………..

    About 5 days ago my bf dog passed away and I was super hurt I found him dead in the morning is dead face wouldn’t leave my mind it was one of the worst days of my life we had to
    Cremate him that same day I nearly went crazyy when I found him dead . Later that day the house was empty every one was full of sorrow and quiet . I took a nap in the middle of that same day he died . I had a dream
    With him he was in my room rolling around on my bed I was standing looking at him smiling as i look to the side of me he was next to me and he was talking to me and I said to him “wow it’s like you never left” he had a weird accent when he spoke to me he was speaking to me about his death experience and telling me how everything is ok , as he spoke to me the other dog was still rolling around on the bed but the other dog was his to. It felt beautiful touch his beautiful soft fur . As Mickey was speaking he started to walk out the room I was following him as we walked out the room the sun was shinning bright Mickey entered the other room still taking to me and he Invited me to the room and I said “I can’t ” and he left threw the window and I woke with a smile on my face an told I had a dream with Mickey and he said he was ok . I’m my opinion Mickey spoke to me because I can control
    My dreams and I am a lucid dreamer and Iam capable of controlling my dreams before Mickey passed away I was having sleep Terrors twice or three times a week Because I would get into deep thought and fall asleep and have no control of my mind while sleeping …. I am more then blessed to have this ability because I got see my friend again .

  41. says

    I commented above, but I ended up expanding upon my comment and blogging about it here:

    I only wish I could have them more often, and on command! If only I could end a crummy day saying, “Dad, will you come visit tonight?”

    From what I have researched and read, it is not easy for spirits to visit us, even in our dreams, so I am always thankful when I do have a visitation dream!

  42. veronda says

    i have been having dreams or vision for some time now . I dreamed that my aunt came to me and siad the dr. gave her 6 months to live. aunt was fine 6 month came it was my mother day before that happens i was seening in a dream a white casket and a small voice ask me where will we do the repass after the furnal she died less than a week not sick but she had complication from congesitve heart failure. dont understand

  43. Louise says

    I have been searching for answers to questions that I have and I think I found them reading this site. Thank you so much!! My fiancee passed away 5 weeks ago and I struggle very much with his death and the loss. I have had more questions than answers. Thanks again

  44. Veronica says

    Just had my 3rd visitation dream… This is the response I sent to my brother after having a visitation dream last night and being greeted to an email delivered to me the next day (TODAY) saying my grandmother would have been 90 years old today. My brother calls me boogie… Seriously? This is HIGHLY FREAKY. I literally had a dream last night that Jason, the kids, Mom and I were staying at Grandmom Jean’s house. I could hear her voice. J thought I was crazy, but mom heard her voice, too. Then the boys literally fall of the bed and Grandmom Jean catches them in mid air and Jason witnesses this. He can’t see her, but admits she must be there. I thank Grandmom for watching them. I cry and ask her if she likes her grandbabies and I hear her say, “Yes. I love them.” Jason, did and admitted he thought we were bonkers. Next thing you know Albert, Kendra, and our aunts show up. Albert brings all these famous NFL players and rappers. And we all see Grandmom Jean. Then Aretha Franklin shows up singing and dancing. Jason takes pictures with all his favorite celebrities and his phone is jammed, just sending out all his pics he took to his buddy. I hide the camera in the bathroom and one of the athletes (who knows who this guy really was) gets it back from me.

    I think Grandmom Jean wanted to send a message that she misses birthday parties or something. WOW.

    That is the second time that I dreamt about someone on a day specific from them. The first time was when we were living in Alaska and I dreamt about Amelia Harris (Remember her and Seth?). I hadn’t thought of her in YEARS. Then like 2-3 days later mom calls me and says that she overdosed a few days ago—the day she died. I truly believe there is a connection between us after we pass now. This confirms it to me.

    Nope. The first time was when Granddad passed and all I saw was peaches related (peach lemonade from Olive Garden, peach milkshake from McD’s, Peaches and Herb sining on the radio while I got my hair done for the funeral…) Remember where they lived and I sucked at visiting them during those college years???

    Our family likes to show off it seems from the great beyond!

    Ok, so I know this is gruesome, but I will screw around with your bath towels if I kick the bucket before you do. You will know it was your boogie shnoogie pissing you off again when they aren’t there in the bathroom, wet already, or tossed on the floor when you come out of the shower. This way you know I will always be your sister and love you from all planes and dimensions. Don’t freak out. I’m happy and fine. Chill, dude!

    Thanks for the reminder of GJ.

  45. Chloe says

    Last night I dreamt of my grandfather. He died almost 2 years ago. It was the best dream I could have encountered. I’m not sure if it was indeed a visitation dream, but it gave me a sense of love. In the dream, I was with a friend who knew my grandfather, and we were walking along a fence. Then, I looked to see my grandfather and I grew so excited and joyful. It was the happiest I’ve been since his death. He showed me that my mom was around the corner listening to my friend and I, I feel that this maybe his way if showing me that my mom, his daughter, does what she does because she loves me. I told her I knew she was there because of him, and he remained in front of me, smiling but not speaking. He looked so happy and full of life, no trace of cancer was visible. And the odd thing was that I was the only one who saw him. I made if aware that he was there, but only I could see him. Ever since he died, my mother, at least this is what I think, does not want to believe that he is dead, so we have yet to visit him in the mausoleum. Personally, I want to be visited by him so often. I lost so much of myself when he passed and I want to be able to see him. I’m only young, not even out of high school yet, and too see him more often, I feel like it will bring back my happiness, and allow me to get out of this mourning depression I feel that I have fallen into.

  46. Triana says

    A very close friend of mine that was also my boyfriend and considered my soul mate at one point of my life, passed about two years ago. The day he passed away I was in complete shock, couldn’t eat or anything. That night while I was asleep I felt him right next to me, i opened my eyes and saw him with long hair and everything was foggy yet i could see him perfectly, he kissed me goodbye. And ever since I still can’t believe he’s gone so I long to dream of him as much as I can so i won’t miss him too much. He visited me last night and more times as well. I love having him back, even for a couple minutes/seconds. Makes me feel like we’re not alone in this world.

  47. deanna says

    Hi, my father has recently passed on and I dreamt last night that he was burried in a mausoleum. It felt like he’s been there for awhile and that his decomposition did happen. I was in there with his body. It felt dark outside. I can’t figure out Why I was there since I went to his funeral where he was buried in the ground. Any way I noticed his stone and casket was open in the mausoleum like his casket had a stone box around his casket. Then all of a sudden he was out of the stone box and casket and slumped on the floor of the mausoleum. Then I woke up. I thought maybe his grave has been disturbed by an angry brother whom was casted from the family. I don’t understand the meaning of this dream. Help.

  48. Maria says

    A very close person to me and my husband his name is graham who we thought of as our Son that we never had and always said we were is second parents, committed suicide Nov 2013, ive had 4 very real dreams of him and in all the dreams he tell’s me that he is not dead he his still hear he looks so happy and well, i hold him and tell i love him i never ask why he did what he did. Is this Graham telling he’s ok ?,in the morning i feel so happy but then later on i feel so sad because it felt so real. Can some help me understand my dreams i do talk to him all the time about whats going on with me and people he new. I’m i doing the right thing by talking to Graham ?

  49. Steve Costello says

    There is a build-up to the event, a leaving party. It is as though the person is visiting several departments at a place of work. People are expressing sadness, anger, frustration . . . a range of emotions relating to unfinished business. Until ‘the leaver’ visits a room where there is only one other person. She expresses regret that she finished a relationship (40 years ago)where everything was wonderful; a passionate love affair. It is me that she is referring to and while she regrets, she is at peace. This was an incredibly vivid dream that awoke me at 4:30 a.m. when I grabbed a pen and paper. I have thought about her occasionally during the last forty years but, only as a teen girlfriend. I know that she passed over at around 4:30 this morning. For that I feel sad but I am smiling because she was happy. I will post again once I can verify that this was not just a dream.

  50. says

    I had a visitation dream 2 nights ago. It felt as real as it could get. A little confusing but just so real. Everyone talks of people who have recently passed away… In my dream my grandfather who passed over 30 years ago came to me. I was taking a nap on a big comfortable bed and in walks my grandfather. He walked around the bed and sat in a chair and leaned over to me. In my head I knew it was quite out of place but when he started talking all I was saying to myself is THIS IS ACTUALY MY GRANDFATHERS VOICE!! I haven’t heard him talk since I was about 14, but when he talked in my dream I knew it was real. He said “I love you” and then something to the affect of “It’s going to be alright. Just get yourself together… You’re
    a great person” I can not picture/hear his EXACT voice in my head right now no matter how hard I try- but in the dream it was him talking to me!!!

  51. Ju Williams says

    I have two brothers that where murdered a year and a week apart. I am the baby girl of the family therefore, I was close to both of them. For some reason I only have visitation dreams of my oldest brother. At the time of his death I knew something was wrong. I felt a real heaviness and need to pray but, didn’t ow what to pray for. When my second brother died I didn’t have the same experience. He and I had gotten extremely closer because of our oldest brother. Why is it that I don’t get visitations from him just my oldest brother?

  52. Peggy says

    I have had very vivid dreams since I was a small child. I have dreams with my Mom,Dad,other family,neighbors,celebrities and people I knew but not personally. I am 56 years old now and It makes sense to me dreaming of family but I don’t understand why I dream of others,especially those I barely knew or never met at all, Elvis for example (although I met him in a dream ten years after he passed).

    There is one dream I had about 3 months after my Mom was killed in an auto accident. There is no doubt in my mind that she came to see me. It started with my sister and I lying on mom’s bed. My mom walked in and over to the side my sister was on and gave her a hug. By the time she was coming around to me I was up and at the foot of the bed. As she hugged me I asked her how she got here and she said I asked if I could come see you and they said I could.

    Of all my many dreams (and I remember many of them) this one was by far the best!

  53. patricia says

    I had a dream where this man came to see a child i had.but in rreal life i am not pregnant or recently had a baby.there were other poeple to my kids my husband and my family member including my brother and his wife who are the dream they had just come home from the hospiatl as did i and they came to show us their babii they had a baby boy and i had a baby girl. And that when i seened the man he came up to me in the bed with the baby and he was crien and he said he was really happy to see the baby and i touched his face and said its a very happy moment your a great grandpa. I told my husband and described the man to him and he said it had to be his grandpa.he passed away when he was i think three. Could that have really been his grandpa??.i never hav met him or seen pictures of him!!

  54. Tony V. says

    Back in 2012 around November I went to a tattoo shop to get a tattoo on my back, I drank before I started my ink session and when I got home(I was picked up) my mom gave me some advil to releave some of the pain, but I forgot I was drunk I don’t know how I forgot but I did so I drugged my self by accident, the entire night I was loopy until finally I was completely knocked out, I drempt a women who looked like my grandma (shes still alive) but it wasn’t her, she told me in my dream that she was a forgotten sibiling who has been dead for many years, her skin looked burned but she was in a red dress floating over me while I layed on a feald of what I think was wheat, she told me she had died a couple months after her birth, she wanted me to tell my grandmother that she Is fine but for her not to forget her own sister, she also gave me some instructions to do when I wake up;
    1: ask your mom if your grandma had a dead sister. She will say no
    2: your mom will call your grandmother and she will not remember at first but give some time and she will
    3: your grandma will explain how I died.

    all of that came true, my grandmother’s sister died at two months from a burning like feeling sensation on her skin, pain was so great that it killed her. my family was freaked out it raised a lot of questions like how was I able to speak to her?, till this day Iv never spoken to her again and never had a dream like that again.

  55. Sam Rodger says

    I’ve just woken up from the dream and decided to google it to see if anyone else had had a similar experience which could potentially explain what happened… I haven’t found much but saw that I could add comments to the page, so I’ve decided to write the dream down, both as a means to document it and also see if anyone can offer opinion on it.
    I’ve only been asleep for 40mins, before I woke up from the dream, the time is now 00:32, and I fell asleep at around 11:20. To begin with, as I’ve just woken up my grammar and storyline may lack clarity but please bear with me.

  56. Sam Rodger says

    I found myself in my parents living room, but it has a counter, like the ones you get in currency exchange places with the small letter box opening to pass your details between the cashier, but this cash desk was made from mahogany, some dark wood. Also my parent living room was also on it’s own just a single room at the top of a drive, so exposed to the elements from all sides.
    I’m sitting behind this desk and I see my dad walk up this drive to my left and behind him is my grandad, who passed away a little over 3 years now. Although my dad was solid like human but my grandad had this paler look to him and was also glistening as though he was wet or was made of diamonds/ crystals as he was reflecting the sunlight.
    Anyway my dad approached this cashier desk, their was some post on the floor outside the desk so he pushed it through the letter box opening onto my side of the desk. Then walked round into the room I was in via a side door. The wind then catches some of the post as I was collecting it and deposits it back on the floor. My grandad then picks it up and passes it through the post box. At this point I can’t believe that my grandad (we called him Bumpa) is alive and tell my dad, who then says I’m imaging things and he’s not there, I then push the letters back through the letter box onto the other side and tell Bumpa to post them through again to watch and I believe he sees the letters float off the ground and though the post box again. My dad can’t see Bumpa do it only me, my dad is pretty amazed at this point I then ask Bumpa to pass a piece of paper between each of his hands to try and prove to my dad that he is real, he does this and again my dad is amazed, and believes that Bumpa is there. Straight after this I then wake up.

  57. Sam Rodger says

    I wake up really afraid at what I had just seen for a number of reasons:
    1.the fact that he was so clear to me, every detail on his face, every bit of stubble is picture perfect. Usually in dreams I don’t remember face detail, etc. only that that person was in the dream, and maybe the couloir of their clothes, this dream was completely different!
    2.everything that happened was quite logical and consecutive, sometimes in dreams I’m all over the place, in this dream I was in 1 position, just behind the counter, inside and I stayed their for the duration of the dream
    3. His appearance, I’ve dreamt about him before, probably around 3 years ago, in that dream though his appearance was very life like, this time he was quite pale, you could still see colour coming through, but it was quite saturated. Also the whole glistening thing, which was really strange, as though he was wet or made of crystals??

    Anyway, I’ve tried to describe my dream, to the best of my ability, having just woken up. There are probably quite a few grammar errors, but try and read past them, thanks.

    Any input from anyone to maybe shed some light on what i experienced would be very much appreciated. Also if you have any questions on the dream I’ll be more than happy to respond to them, to the best of my ability though as the memory is fading fast.

    I hope you have enjoyed and I look forward to hearing anything.


  58. Nadine says

    2 nights ago I had a dream that was quite random as most of my dreams are. this one however was a tad different than my regular ones. It started out quite random. I was in a room that had a shallow pool. The pool was empty and had red felt at the bottom like a pool table. (I dream a lot about pools, but normally deep water filled pools) This room was a gate to an airport.I was waiting in line with my ticket, and the stewardess (wearing a blue vest and white shirt) guided everyone in line. Next thing I knew, I was in a black car with seats that faced each other. (like a limo) I began to enter this deep meditative state. Doing this certain meditation allowed you to communicate with those who have died, and only the person doing it could see them.) Once I was fully in the meditative state, I awoke. (Still in the car) Sitting directly across from me were my great grandparents. Clear as day. Just how I remembered them when i was little. We didn’t speak to each other, but I could feel their presence and and theirs mine. They smiled and waved to me. But it was kind of in a slow motion. It was quite calming peaceful and vivid!
    – Though I knew my great grandfather, He died when I was real young, so I don’t remember much abut him.(I was born in 85) Makes the dream extra cool! It’s real interesting too because my great grandmother was quite religious. She had 2 visions of Jesus while living :)
    I had another brief dream during my teen ears about the same great grandmother. Sky was clear with a few clouds, smiling and she said “you’re doing great”

  59. Robin Galle says

    My firs visitation dream was in the mid 90’s. I was struggling w some family business and was concerned. My Dad came to me in a dream and told me it would be ok. I felt peaceful from that moment and he was indeed correct.

    The last few, for a week or so, have been from someone I loved very much. He was very ill and died two weeks ago. He has visited me several times since. He hugs me and gives me much love, then is gone. I feel like I am really awake and can hear all the street noise outside. When he leaves I just open my eyes. It always leaves me with a peaceful loving feeling. Am not able to express this to my usual bunch of friends b/c I don’t think they would believe me. No matter, I know it happened and I will always welcome him anytime.

  60. anthony says

    My grandmother passed away 2 months ago at the age of 91.when we took her body back to the Dominican Republic for burial, I got really spooked by her house. When we came back to our house in NY, I wouldn’t step foot in her room. And if the door was open, I would close it. About 2 weeks after her death I had a visitation dream. In the dream my entire family was having dinner and my grandmother walked down the stairs. We all got scarred because we knew she was dead. My mother gets up and tells her “mom you look great”, my grandmother replied “I’m fine I’m 75, looked how I walked down those stairs without any help. Look how I pull this chair out and I sit and stand up with no help”. I got out of my chair and a walked up to her crying, telling her I missed her and loved her so much. She grabbed me by my shoulders and told me to stop crying that she was fine. And to let her go. I never had a dream like this I woke up crying and went to her room and when I walked in it smelled like if she was there. I would love to know the meaning of this dream

  61. Emily says

    I really feel like I had a visitation dream from my one aunt who passed away when I was 7. This was about a few months ago. The dream was really vivid. I was walking into my Nana’s house and through her back door and into the porch area. Then there was another door I had to walk into that lead to the kitchen. In the dream as I entered the kitchen, I saw my Aunt Katie sitting at the kitchen table. I remembered that she had longer hair than what I remember her having, but I knew it was her. I remember in the dream walking into that kitchen and feeling a tiny bit of shock. As if I was surprised to see her there. Maybe because I had known she was dead. I walked over to her and we hugged. There was no dialogue or any words said that I could remember, just hugging. What was even weirder was that after that I remember lying in my bed half awake and half asleep and I muttered the words either in head or softly out loud “Thanks for visiting Aunt Katie” and that was it. I woke up a bit later and then remembered the dream shortly after I had woken up. I really feel it was a visitation dream because it felt so real. And in other dreams I have had with departed loved ones, they didn’t feel like this. They were different. And I never had a dream where I spoke to them as If I knew they were there. Also, I had this dream around the anniversary of my aunts death. Do any of you think this was an actual visitation dream?

  62. Rae says

    I had a dream last year about my Japanese Teacher Yukiko who passed away last Halloween. We were in a shopping centre buying Kimonos with our friends from the choir. Throughout the dream I tried to bring her back to life, but by the end of it she became really angry and told me off, she was suffering from cancer in her last hours and I kept asking why someone with so much to live for would leave. Now I think I know she didn’t have a choice in the matter she was in too much pain to continue….. I didn’t wake up from the dream crying I woke up feeling happy we had bought kimonos together. Could this have been a visitation. I had a second one where I saw her through the glass window of a door and I woke up extremely happy!

  63. Katie says

    My little brothers mother passed away of suicide 4 years ago, and since her passing i have had a total of 3 dreams with her in them. We were close, and knew eachother for a few years, and i have missed her dearly. After her passing, i had dreamt of her outside of her friends house, standing underneath a tree. There were two bicycles close by, and she looked the same as ever. I walked up to her, and asked her something (i cannot recall right now) and she didnt say anything, but just shook her head. I then asked her if she wanted to ride bikes and talk about it, and she said yes. Then i woke up. I wish i can remember what we talked about. My latest dream was her telling me to not forget her face, and i was searching for her…i love these dreams, makes me happy that she is thinking of me as much as i think of her.

    Amazing and thankful that i can still remember her face.

  64. Jess says

    I actually just had a dream about one of my friends that passed 5 years ago. I have never really dreamed about him since his passing & think of him every once in awhile. I recently lost my sister a year ago so that passing has been pretty much the only thing n my mind. This dream about my friend was so real. I recently just started this job. Well in my dream my friend walks into to where I work in real life and smiled. I looked and him and was like what the heck. How are you here ya know because your dead. I asked him that and he was like Im not dead. I ran to him and hugged him for awhile. It just seemed so real and it was in my workplace where I just started working. He gave me his number for when I got off work to call him and hang out. Well when I got off work I tried to call him and there was no ring just a weird tone sound, & than it said number was disconnected. It was so real and Im just kind of shooken about it because I havent dreamed about him since his passing & it was just so random and real. Any thoughts about it??

  65. bai guiamalon says

    My father died 2 years ago, i keep dreaming on him and i was like screaming to cry as how much i miss him atleast twice a week, in real before he diedi promise him to see each other but it didnt happen,i told my self please tell in a derict way whzt does he want me to do,now a days im li,e hell to cry in the dream hiw i miss him

  66. Alexis says

    I just had a dream that may have been a visitation dream with my best friend Taylor who passed away. Today I am taking a train to Chicago and then heading to Philadelphia. I dreamt the I was in Chicago by the Silver Bean and I saw her reflection. I turned around and she gave me a huge hug. We talked and we went to a house nearby that I haven’t seen before. She told me that she might go on my trip with me, I kept asking how since I knew even in my dream that she had passed away. We talked and played with kittens and she kept saying that now we will always be together and I don’t have to miss her any more. She was with me until my alarm woke me up. The odd thing about it is I’m headed to Chicago today and have been having severe health issues that are unpredictable and potentially fatal, my doctors didn’t want me to go on this trip because they were concerned but I am going anyway. I am wondering if she is trying to tell me something or if it was just a dream?

  67. Amber says

    My daddy passed away 3 years ago, it was sudden and tragic. I keep having the same dream of him sitting at the dining room table waving, he doesn’t say a word… He just sits there smiling and waving. I called my cousin the next day to tell her about it, and she had had the same exact dream! What does it mean? I’m desperate!

  68. gwen says

    My father has dementia, recently I had a dream that a person in authority was informing me my father was frail and weak and dying.
    in the dream I confirm everything with I know, I know, what does this dream mean.

  69. anonymous says

    I’m not sure what to make of this dream, but it’s odd to me, bc I don’t know this person. I sometimes watch I.D Investigate, that show disappeared. I had a dream about this missing girl (I barley ever dream, bc I have such a hard time falling asleep half the time) my dream consisted of a missing poster of a girl, it played out like a film in my head. And I didn’t realize her name, but the characteristics sounded so formilliar, that when I typed them in to google, Margaret Haddican came up, and her picture was a spitting image of what I dreamt about. And I feel like her message to me was, Hey, I’m still missing, please never forget me. I wondered why I’d even dream of something like that…to sum this up, as I read an article about her, yesterday was Oct 10th. It marked the 8th year that she has been missing still. I’ve never met this person before, but I feel strongly that she was trying to push me to do something for her..if anyone knows information guarding her case, I strongly suggest you call the police. A women like this wouldn’t seem to have left her daughter behind in a crib, or her other children.

  70. says

    Does Anyone Know Anything About Dreams?
    Here’s What’s Going On While I’m Sleeping,
    I Dream About My Family That Has Passes Away.
    I know I Miss Them ,But When I See Them There Very Much Alive.
    Now Here’s What’s Going On,When I See Them ,They Act Like I’m Not There , But Sometime My Mom Walks Up To Me & Ask Me What Are U Doing Here ?
    Then I Wake Up. I Had Another One The Other Day,I Was Running After My Older Brother Trying My Best To Catch Up With Him.He Turned Around,& Told Me To Go Home. Now I’m Having The Same Dreams About My Close Friends
    Dose Anyone Know What My Dreams Are About ? I Talk To My Older Brother & We Can Up With The Same Answer,Were Thinking I’m Trying To Die & My Family & Friends Keep Telling Me To Go Home.
    Does Anyone Know Anything About Dreams?
    Thank U In Advance For Any Comment .
    your Friend.
    ………………..Richard Rotosky Sr

  71. Adrianne Rivera says

    I still dont know what it means grandfather died of a stoke and he had brain damage and I have been having dreams me and him are in a library we are sitting in blue wooden chairs and all I hear is a voice saying look around and I do but it is not him saying look around I feel like he is trying to tell me something but nothing is coming out of his mouth and I have been noticing in every dream he is wearing the same thing but I’m always wearing something different and I think I am someone else because when I have the dreams I am looking at me and him sitting. PLEASE SOMEONE TELL ME WHAT THIS MEANS IT IS DRIVING ME CRAZY!!!!!!!!!

  72. Chelsea says

    I’ll never forget a dream I had about 8 years ago, my nana died when I was really small and I always got really upset when I thought about the funeral as I wasn’t aloud to attend due to being so small. I was such a brat to her and I’ve always felt bad about it. I remember talking to about her the day before this dream maybe this is why she visited me. I was in my room, my door was closed and a bright light was shining through the spaces in the door, I remember thinking that’ll just be my sister going to the bathroom but I instantly knew the light was just too bright. The door opened and there she was my nana, smiling at me. She looked much younger than she did when I knew her and very healthy too. I remember asking her if it hurt when she died and she told me no she died very peacefully. I asked her about my papa she said he was outsider he wasn’t ready to come in yet and I was so upset then she said goodbye to me and closed the door, the light went out after she left. I was so upset I woke up the next morning in tears and when I described how she looked to my dad (her grandson) he couldn’t even look at me, he asked me so many questions so I think he list have believed me. About a year later I had a similar dream but it was my papa, same bright light but he didn’t say anything he just sat at the end of my bed and smiled. It was very strange but I wasn’t scared at all. I felt very peaceful.
    It’s nice to know I’m not crazy and these things do happen to others!

  73. lisa says

    My father passed away last july and I haven’t felt him at all until Friday night I woke my husband up by yelling ” just come home then!” I think I woke myself up too because I literally had my hand to my ear…..than he proceded to keep me up most of the night. I dont remember what the dreams were bit I cant shake the feeling that it was my dad. I miss him so much

  74. mary says

    I recently had a dream that my dead father came to visit me I asked him how he was and he said he was happy and well and that I was not to worry about him, he also came with a message to relay for my brother he told me to tell him to take care of himself, I told my father why ? my brother is good why should I tell him to take care of himself? then I asked him is there anything wrong with him? and my father responded no there isn’t anything wrong with him NOW but just tell him to take care of himself. then he disappeared can anyone tell me what that means?

  75. Emily Barker says

    Hi, I had a vivid and peaceful dream about my step father about 5 years ago when he passed. I was in my mothers house helping her pack some things and staying the night with siblings there. Me and my brother were staying the night in the same room. The whole house kind of had an eerie feel to it, it was odd. I found it hard to fall asleep, I eventually did fall asleep, but it felt as if something forced me too? I was thinking is it possible if my step father did that? Then in my dream, he was there. Except he was standing in front of a brick wall. It was red as any brick wall would be, but proceeded with a kind of peaceful white mist or light? I couldn’t tell. But he did not talk at all. At all. It was odd. But he was dressed so nice. I don’t remember what he was wearing, but all I remembered was that he was nice looking. He just got smaller and smaller. Like in the movies. When the camera would slowly keep moving farther back and fade slowly. I felt like he was telling me that it was me and my siblings jobs to take care of our mother after that. He was saying goodbye in a peaceful and respectful manner? Without saying anything. I sure miss him, but I know he is better and happier and looking down on us and our family.

  76. Alicia says

    I sometimes dream of my father who has passed away 5 and a half years ago. The thing is when I see him he NEVER says anything to anyone. Sometimes he has a serious look on his face and sometimes he is happy looking. But I never hear his voice. He does not open his mouth to speak. I’ve had a dream of my uncle one time right after his passing. He visited me at my job. He came right in and up to me with open arms telling me that it was OK and not to cry anymore. I wonder why my dad never says anything to me… It sorta makes me sad. I’m happy to see him but sad we don’t speak. Why though??

  77. Emily says

    I had a visitation dream about my brother who committed suicide a little over two months ago. In the dream, I walked into a house that was like the two houses we had lived in together. He was wearing a jacket he always wore, as well as the typical outfit he wore daily, a baggy white shirt and baggy jeans. I walked in and he was talking to somebody, they weren’t visible to me. Then when he saw me I was so excited. In the dream however I knew he was still passed away. He and I sat down and talked about how everyone was doing with his passing, and I showed him how people were doing through Facebook kind of. For example, on the page, it showed my other brothers emotions as a status. Then after what seemed like hours we walked into the kitchen and he said he had to go and he gave me a hug. I held on as tight as I could and I woke up. I was very at peace but so emotionally drained after that dream and I really want to have another.

    My mom had one with her father. He passed away suddenly and she was never able to say goodbye. She would have the same dream over and over of her walking into the living room, and her dad would be sitting in the same chair he would always sit in. She had it multiple times and each time she would be so close to hugging him and then she would wake up. She finally got to hug him and hasn’t had the dream since.

    When I told her about my dream she told me that I probably won’t have another one. Is there any way of increasing my likelihood of having another one?

  78. soshe says

    okay my nephew had died a couple years back n i dream about him laying in a casket at my house though and he grabed me, i woke up in sleep paralysis. n now i had lost a brother last week n i dreamed about him and him dying and he grabbed me. what do the grabbing mean

  79. Lorie says

    I dreamt of my friend\ ex boyfriend who was murdered. He has been dead for a month now! In my dream we were laying side by side and I could see he was happy and smiling! He voice was clear and he wanted me to know that he was okay. He said he knows he’s missed and that not to worry cause he’s always around. I heard his laugh it was so beautiful to hear. I think even before I found out he was murdered he was trying to get a hold of me? We knew each other for 20 years and we had stopped speaking two years before his death. A couple of weeks after he was murdered I felt like getting a hold of him like I really felt the need to apologize to him. I still had no idea he had passed till I saw his obituary on his Facebook page. I think he wanted me to know? I miss him! He was such a loving person!

  80. Bill says

    I had the most amazing, comforting visitation dream this week, nothing ever happened to me like this before. I am a conservative 55 year old professional man that just lost my brother/ best friend 7 months ago to cancer. Simulteneously I have been fighting cancer but successfully. In this dream I was driving on a dirt road in my truck with someone. We parked and I got out of the truck and turned to see my brother about 35 feet away in his full camo hunting outfit. I snapped into a lucid state and instantly became fully aware where I was and who was with me. My brother was analyzing the setting as it related to deer and their habits. Hunting was his passion. I was overcome with amazement and emotion, I remember everything so clearly. Bob was flooded with sunlight thru the high treel canopy, it was an autumn scene and the colors of the fallen foliage were all around him and he was so tall and healthy. He continued to describe the scene and I was so excited to be there with him. I recall in the dream I was so excited to see him that I kept saying, this is Bob, this is Bob to myself. I wanted to contain my emotion so that I didn’t wake up. I heard something in the underbrush and I mentioned it, we both walked to that area and Bob reached in and flushed a few game birds with his left hand. It was so clear! At this time I feel that my brother knew my every thought and utter joy I was feeling to be with him. We both stood and started walking down the road , we cam in on, side by side as we have done so many times in the past. As we walked my heart and mind was racing, I knew Bob was aware of how emotional I was and he was being cautios and quiet as we walked together. I could feel he was enjoying the moment as well. I wanted to hold him so badly and I knew this wasn’t going to last much longer. I finally let loose, and turned and ” bear hugged him! I told hime very emotionally that ” I miss you so much!” I clearly remember burying my face in his jacket and squeezing his healthy body. He paused for a second or two and said ” you have to move on Bill”. At that moment the dream ended and I was thrust into a typical random dream at my sister Inlaws home. In that dream I was still aware of the visitation I just had and was debating if I should share what just happened to me, then I fully awoke. I instantly was feeling overwhelmed with joy and amazement ” What just happened…it was my brother! I will never forget it, it was Bob and this has changed my entire state of mind from here on!

  81. says

    I had a visitation dream of my grandfather that has been dead for 6 or 7 years.I dreamed we were in a small groceries business store.My grandfather told me in the dream their was something he wanted me to have.In my dream in my mind I was thinking a will is what it is.But I remember he was dead that he could not be giving me that.My grandfather told me in my dream it was the store with were in,he wanted me to take over for him.The little store was owned my him and he wanted me to have it.That God gave him another day to live.I can remember me crying telling him not to leave me.
    I had a dream this morning I was giving my grandfather and father a kiss on the cheek,it seemed so real.It was like a happy dream of them.-Thank you

  82. Darwin Callen says

    Your description of your dreams and what happened prior to your fathers death really hit a nerve. First off i talk alot therefore i write alot with that being said. ive been in tears from beggining to end. In august 2005 my father past away from a heart attack, as I was told by my mother. For the past nine years ive had to listen to the rumors that one: either my mother killed him, or two: he committed suicide. Allow me to add a little back story, my father is one of eight children that grew up mostly in georgia, an airforce brat. His father died in 1983 which i believe began a landslide of depression. In 92-3 his mother died. It was after my brother was deployed to germany post 9/11 that his drinking worsened. To put the cherry on top my father was a neo-natal icu nurse, i could never imagine losing a child much less having to watch babies die no matter how often. Im sure he had every right to be depressed and or to drink. My mother filed for divorce in 2004 because she refused to deal with his drinking anymore instead of helping him and being there for him she also brought a man to live in our home. I was 17 years old when I found out my dad died. I was in my consumer issues class junior year when my campous ministry councelor came and brought me to his office. Im not sure if I ever excepted his death. I know he is not here because its what im told however I dont believe it. I dont believe it because ive had three dreams since his death, and hes told me hes not dead. Dreams 1,2,3, all take place at my childhood home in lebanon, ill. I gew up from 2-17 in a large victorian house with an awesome yard and a barn, we lived in town and had a barn(weird)! There are usually friends and family all over, as we would throw partys in the yard. The first dream I saw him talking to family, he turned and smile at me, in confusion I went over to him. “Your dead, you died, what are you doing here?” I demanded. “It was a joke, I didnt die im still here!” He replied with a smile. Throughout the rest of the dream I followed him asking him questions searching for answers ansking how, why, he could do that to me. But he never really answered me, or at least I cant recall. He just kind of kept mingeling. Like my father I to am a social butterfly and tend to ignore those near to my. The second and third dreams were set much like the first, still joking about his death and how it didnt really happen. Everytime I dreamt about him I felt it was real, I felt I had my life back, my happiness. Then, snap reality, I wake up im in bed. I dont know what I should feel who I should believe, for all I know his death was a comedy and in fact he is alive somewhere. Months before his death he talked about going to Indonesia, new Zealand to work and wanted me to go. He’d say a fresh start, A new life no booze no worries just us. I knew my mother would never go for it, her sons living half a world away. I apologize this was no bullet train through the tunnel kinda if story, I am more of the scenic route traveler, more fraternal traits. The day before he died he was at my girlfriends house. We came home and her mother told me my dad was in jens room and she dudnt kniw what to do, he was drunk. I went to talk to him he was in tears and laying on her bed. He said he wanted to be close to me wanted to see me, I hugged him kissed his cheek and we agreed that we would go shopping the next day after school for school clothes and supplies, two weeks into class and still didnt have anything. I think it was a ccombination of his drinking and a teenagers embarrassment of their parents thst just wanted to push him on his way. With my eyes open I never saw my father alive again.

  83. M says

    I am writing Bc I have not gotten over my ex boyfriend’ s death. He died 2 years ago from an overdose. We were broken up at the time. My first dream happened before he died. I was at his funeral and I saw him lying in the casket. He looked so peaceful but I was so angry that he overdosed , I kept saying “why?” He wakes up and grabs my hand , he says “I’m so sorry, please remember you were the one I have alwayed loved, and always will”. Then he laid back down and closed his eyes.
    I woke up in cold sweats and in a panic. When I realized it was just a dream I was so greatful. I started to get ready for my parents friend’s father funeral, then my friend called with the bad news about my ex. I didn’t know how to respond. I told her I just had a dream about him the other night. She couldn’t believe it.
    Since then, I have dreamed about him two more times. Including last night. My dreams are very odd but always ugly outside (cloudy or dark. )
    We always kiss and hug each other. He tells me how much he loves me and will always protect me. His kisses are so warm and filled with life. His face is somewhat pale. There are other people in my dreams that I have never seen before. The dreams are always feeling so real. There was an Indian heavyset guy semi bald or really residing hairline that tells me he sees an aura of my ex, where as I see him completely. Then last night I saw a blond hair girl who was very skinny and pale. She seemed concerned about something, I don’t remember. We were in the woods or park and she told me she takes care of him. That they take care of each other. She then asked said things that I don’t remember. I felt as if they were scared of something.
    I’m so confused as to what these dreams mean. Please help me figure out if he is communicating or I’m just missing him.

  84. samantha says

    HI,i have just recently lost my dad due to an illness,and since that I have been having dreams about him all the dreams are good dreams telling me hes okay and not to worry,But I do cry wen I think of him,i knw hes in a betta place now and ders no pain,but I miss him alot.before he could pass away I didn’t go and see him I regret that so much at that tym I didn’t think he was going to pass away so soon but he did.So maybe hes trying to tell me hes okay now n not to worry.

  85. virginia says

    I have had visitation dreams about my mother BT they are so horrific. at the tym she died we were Neva in good terms. I sometyms feel I was Neva there for her when she needed me.

  86. virginia says

    I have had visitation dreams about my mother BT they are so horrific. at the tym she died we were Neva in good terms. I sometyms feel I was Neva there for her when she needed me. in those dreams it seems my mother was not ready to die.

  87. Hermione says

    It just means your grandmother loves you very much.And you miss her so much that you have dreams about seeing her.

  88. says

    hi, im savannah i miss my nana and she past away sick,weak,unhelthy with a heart leak and last night on the 11th month on the 6th day in 2014 i had a dream that she had a orange tree in her back yard and i was picking some then in a snap i was in her room and then instantly i was in the drive way i was scared and then i was happy too see her but then she said (i love you and i miss you but watch your back change your ways okay don’t do wrong and then i woke up sweating) and then know i can’t get over it and i need answers please lord thats what i am praying for.

  89. CTesfaye says

    I’m not sure if its a visitation dream or not but I feel like it is.

    A month and a few days ago a really close friend from the family died from stomach cancer.
    Last night, I had a dream , I was looking out the window and Elsa ( name of the close family member ) was there , she looked so good, she had her her straightened and really long and she had on a really nice long black dress with her makeup done & I go outside , she’s closing her umbrella , cause it just stopped raining & she said something I just can’t remember what and I started crying and said ” You died! We went to your funeral “and again she said something that I can’t remember , she came up the steps and she showed me her leg and she had tattoos and piercings and she said she was in Mexico with a new man & then I woke up .

    Its really confusing since I can’t remember what she said .

  90. Kisha G says

    My husband’s grandfather passed away on Christmas day two years ago. While we (my husband’s grandfather ) never have been close, he has come to me several times in my dream
    On one vivid dream he told me to tell his family to take care of his car. I relayed the message and sure enough I was told that a family member had not been servicing the car when needed and also the whole steering wheel was not working. This morning I had a dream of my grandfather in law, he was in a glass building that had several rooms with people in it, he was in room 104, he hugged my husband who I only saw at that point, he was never seen in the dream. His grandfather told me that he was being treated good and he was happy. He said he had missed my husband. I plan on telling my husband but not sure he will believe me.

  91. Janie says

    I have always wonder if our loved ones can actually be communicating with us? Because I’ve always felt like they can or I could when it comes to my family and those I feel a deep emotional connection with. For example when my baby brother Raymond was suppose to come from Chicago to Spokane Wa, to come visit and meet my first born son (which happened to be my one and only child) whom he called Raymond since that is my son’s middle name. But my brother Raymond didn’t make it instead he called and said he’d be down in a week or so. He knew I was upset so he said listen sis I promise no matter what I will be there I promise you and little Raymond I promise, I said please don’t disappoint me again you should have been here for the 4h of July you promised. He said I will, I will I promise I will be there. I said you promised! he said I promise! Well,that week end afternoon he should have been there and wasn’t. We were at the race track all of a sudden I could barely breath my husband and friends were getting scared I was turning 3 shades of blue and we left they were taking me to the hospital but as we got closer to the house on the way to the hospital I was OK. So I told my husband let’s just go home I’m Ok. Well as we drove into the drive way and got out of the car and opened the kitchen door we stepped into a flooded kitchen floor, living room, bathroom and both bedrooms were flooded with a good inch of water. At first we thought a water pipe broke, the washer was left on (but I hadn’t washed) the toilet backed up (none of those things happened) we lived in a duplex the neighbors apt was dry no sign of water, so our friends, husband and I mopped up the floors and cleaned up. Just as we got done cleaning I got that call you never want to get, it was my older sister Lisa calling from Chicago telling me Raymond had drown that afternoon and they were still looking for his body. A few hours later he was found but that evening as I walked into my son’s room to check on him sleeping his room smelled like when you walk into a flower shop the odor of flowers was so strong, but only in his room and a small dime size light hitting the wall over head he’s crib a light that had never been there before till this night. Couple days and nights when by and still the light was there thinking and looking how a light from out side could at that angle be there when there was no lights coming in from out side or any lights being on. So I decided to move his bed to the opposite side of the room where no outside light could come in or be over his crib. But yet again that night the light was once again on the same spot on the wall over my son’s crib and the odor of flowers still there. My brother Raymond was the first death in our family and he was only 17 when he died so I was crying and praying and talking to him asking if possible to give me a sign he was OK and how much I wished he would have had the chance to see my son who shared his name, cause even though my son’s name is John Raymond my brother said he was never going to call him John he was going to call him Raymond and we use to joke about that when he called he’d say how’s little Raymond and how cool his got my name. And I was like yeah well if you want to call him Raymond you need to come meet him and he’s say went you least expect me I will be there you’ll see. Well after I came back from his funeral, I prayed and talk to him and finally that night in my son’s room I sat there talking to him as I had done every night I said Raymond if this is you and my heart tells me it is I think it is time you rest in peace little brother and I forgive you for not coming when you said you would and I’m not mad at you anymore for not coming or leaving us. I will always love and remember you but it is time you rest and know that we will be ok as long as you promise to be Raymond’s guardian angel cause being your nephew my son his going to need you. Well I lit a candle for him said another prayer and the next day when I woke up my son was jumping, smiling and laughing in his crib banging the head board up against the wall and no more flower smell and that night no more dime size light over my son’s head board. So I believe that my baby brother Raymond kept his promise. Do you think that a visitation is possible? Because my son has also had some close calls and Thank God and I believe my brother and other family members whom I pray to and ask to watch over us are doing just that.

  92. Sally says

    I would love to get your take on this. I had a visitation dream from my mother – while she was still alive! She’s had Alzheimer’s for many years and hasn’t recognized me for the past several years, yet was very healthy physically. About two months ago, she came to me in a dream. Most of the dream was light-hearted talk as she did the dishes in the kitchen. She looked like she did was I was a kid/teen and she was her old self. She seemed to know what I was up to present day, for example, she suggested foods she thought would be good for my diet. Then, she got very serious, came over to me and whispered in my ear, “November 5th will be a very bad day”. Stunned because I knew she was telling me that was the day she would die, I suddenly woke up and cried. It was so real, I told all my siblings that mom would die that day and even wrote on my calendar “Mom’s Day”. Sure enough, two months later she passed away on that day. Have you ever heard of a visitation dream from a person who is alive but in an impaired mental state, such as a coma or Alzheimers?

  93. Taylor says

    I don’t really know if I have had a visitation dream. My dream consist of my ex- boyfriend. He was shot the day of my birthday and died the day after. Although we were no longer together till this day I still love him dearly. When he had died no too long after that I found out I was pregnant with my current boyfriend. So that caused me superstition of my son being born for his death. But anyway once he died a few months after that I had my first dream about him. I was in this big older house and it seemed as though we were upstairs and I was talking to him and telling him how much we’ve missed and loved him. He was saying something but I could not hear nor see him. But I was responding to him. Weird right.& I felt his presence and it warmth and happiness all around me. So in the dream I ran outside where it seem to be everyone who loved him and I told everyone that he was coming out soon but he never showed. And every dream about him after that is very similar it always has my ex boyfriend but I cant see or hear him but I know that he is there and I can talk to him. Its going on 2 year now of his death. Until last night I had a dream and physically saw him and felt him. I am unsure what all this mean. When he died I felt guilt and I never got forgiveness from him before he passed. After we broke up he still managed to be a good friend to me and I crossed him and I never called him to apologize. He meant a lot to me. So I beat myself all the time about this. & when I had this dream and physically saw him and heard him it was a shocked. In this dream I told him how sorry I was and he forgave me. I woke up melted in tears. Because thats all I wanted for a very long time. Can anyone tell me what this means?

  94. shawn says

    can anyone help me to find out what it means when you are in a dream with a love one who passed and you expreience his death ?

  95. Diane Walden says

    My 21 yr old Daughter Sasha Holt was ran over by a reserve sheriff/fire cheif in great falls MT on july 1, 2009. Every night I dream of her. Sometimes she is 5–other times she is 21. I can fall asleep in a chair and she is their too. I wake up and think she is still here with me but in seconds I realize she is not. She warns me of stuff. I do not know what to do. I am sad all the time. Each night I have her only to wake up later to find she is not here any more.

  96. shana says

    On September 25 of this year I had a dream of my ex husband’s biological father that he never met. Mind you we searched for him 10 years ago and was unsuccessful. In my dream he told me to find me please find me chad needs you your kids need you. I knew it was the real father because of the only picture that my ex husband had of his dad was a Sr pic this was him 30 years older. Well when I woke up I did find this man and his family only to find out that he had passed away on September 8th of this year. My ex husband is now talking to his brother and sister that he never knew he had. Just wondering why this man came to me. I’m so confused.

  97. Brian says

    My mother passed away from a heart attack in 2013. My wife would tell me how she would see her mom and asked if I have seen mine. Unfortunately, the answer was no and I was a bit sad about that.
    Then about 6 months after her death, I was dealing with a bad reaction health issue from the Levaquin antibiotic that I was taking. It was hard for me to walk, I was loosing weight and muscle mass and was worried that I was going to get ALS which killed my grandfather over 10 years ago.
    Then one night, I had a dream of me walking outside in a San Francisco type enviroment and was having the hardest time making it up those hills, to the point that I collapsed on the pavement.
    Then I hear a voice come over me, like they were standing over me and the voice says “Brian you are going to be OK, don’t worry”. I woke up and started to process what I was feeling and who that voice was and the more I thought about it and the more it sounded like my mom was telling me everything was going to OK.
    I started to feel better, health and emotion wise, but I still have anxiety issues whenever I hear or had someone I know die.
    However, it’s good to know that something better will be waiting for us when its our time.

  98. casey says

    I was 16 when my dear grandfather left me. We were two peas and a pod and in life he always treated me like a princess. As I treated him like a prince in shinning armor, as he was. When he passed, I broke in half with every piece of my being. The same night he departed, I dreamed of him. It was pouring rain and I was crying hysterically, just as I had been before falling asleep. He pulled up in a limo and opened the door, repeatedly saying the same thing again and again. ” IT’S ALRIGHT CASEY, ITS ALRIGHT.” Over n over he reassured me it was OK. When I woke up, the last part of his saying, echoed through my mind ( I could actually hear his voice in my mind). He said, “hey Casey,always remember to keep your head up!” This confused me as I was still young in experience. I didn’t understand what he meant because I was not ashamed, just sad. 28 years later, having been through some treacherous and long-term abuse, I now understand that he meant in the future, not the present. So, when the time came to stand tall for myself and my babies, I proudly held up my head and let go of the shame. I should have know his last message would be so profound, because he knew that one day I would grant his final, most important request! Writing this has made me aware that in standing up for myself, I made him proud, even from separate universes… Thank you Grandpa, I will ALWAYS keep my head up, and so should anyone in that situation. We all have our guides, all we have to do is listen….

  99. Justine says

    I dream of my mother mostly, it is always in present tense & it is always like no biggie that she passed away but yet is in our everyday life.
    We fight like we used to, we talk in the same manners as normal & it is never strange . When I wake up I am always like ” what happened ??”
    It freaked me out at first but later it happens so much it is just like real life with her again.
    I know it sounds strange but I can always feel her just a breathe away, like her energy is just at my fingertips but yet I can’t grasp her.
    In my dreams she says things that are very vague and then she says stuff flat out , just like in real life . I dream of others too, and usually can smell their scent in the morning on my pillows as if they were there, my grandmother always wore a heavy musk perfume , very distinctive and immediately when I smell it I know who it is, my mother in law as well wore a very floral perfume & when I smell it I know she is there .

    Sometime I just feel like i am crazy for being able to have all these dreams remember them & talk about it, where as others disbelieve & doubt themselves.

    Keep dreaming

  100. Amilia says

    It was the day before Father’s Day and I had a dream that it was Christmas time, with out it being Christmas time. My dad’s house was the was it used to be 15 years ago. My brothers and sisters were the age we are now. My dad was leaving I went to see where he was going, he was wearing his motorcycle vest, a reddish shirt, black pants and his boots that he loved to wear. He said he was leaving and that he loved me and gave me a hug,

  101. Iveth says

    Hi Vanessa! I wanted to share my experience with you, since we almost had the same thing happen to us.
    I’m 21 but through out all my high school years I dated the same boy. I was a year older so after I graduated, he and I became distant and we eventually broke up. He married the girl he had dated before me. After two years since our brake up, I never spoke to him again. I once saw him at a store but I was married myself so he just said hi to my mother. I knew him very will despite of all the time that had passed, that day he looked at me and I could tell he wanted to talk to me. But I, in my foolish pride, walked away. Three months later he passed away in a car accident. That night I was sitting in my living room. It was around 1:30 am. I started crying and I felt a sense of pain and emptiness in my heart. I didn’t understand then but when I got a call he passed away, I knew them. He died that night I cried, around the same time. Why? How did I my body/soul know? I don’t understand.
    Few weeks later my sister told me he came to her in a dream looking for me. My sister let him know where I was and a few days later he came to me.
    I was in our old school bus waiting to go back home. In my dream, I was looking down but I looked up because I heard him coming in. I asked him ” How are you here? You’re supposed to be dead!” He told me they didn’t give him much time but that he wanted to say goodbye. I started crying and as I reached to place my hand on his cheek he began a 10 second countdown. As he got closer to number b1, he faded. I woke up with some sort of peace. I was also mad because they only gave him 10 seconds..
    It’s weird how stuff like this happens right?!

  102. Jennifer says

    I had a visitation dream not to long ago. I guy I dated several years ago showed up in my dream and sat behind me at church. He told me I was a wonderful women and wanted to be with me. This dream was so vivid it was all I could think about. I’ve been married for a few years now and gave two children.
    I tried to find this person online. I checked death records and he passed away in 2008. I was so shocked. What could all this mean?

  103. brandon says

    so I had a friend pass away last Thursday and her daughter called me on Monday to tell me that she had passed away and I had a dream that same night and I was standing in front of a mirror praying to God and I said dear God I just lost another best friend and she can’t hear me but I just need to know that she’s OKat that moment she said Brandon stop I’m right here and I’m fine don’t worry about me anymore and she had on a beautiful burgundy shirt and I said well Sarah I want a hug and she said well okay and she gave me a hug that lasted about 5 seconds but when we gave hugs it was the most unconditional love the only thing that can describe it it was it must been the feeling that you have in heavenand then I woke up in the middle of the night and knew that my friend had came to say goodbyecan’t wait to hear if anyone else has had any hug experiences where it’s been overwhelming the feeling is just more than I’ve ever felt in this world there’s no earthly feeling comparable to that it’s just words can’t describe itlet’s hear your thoughts

  104. Rin says

    It’s kind of strange because I’ve had dreams where it has included people I’ve never met before who are famous and they all have two things in common which is that they are all dead and they have a connection with music. The people who have been in my dreams include; Jimmy ‘The Rev’ Sullivan (From the band Avenged Sevenfold) & Kurt Cobain (From the band Nirvana).

    The first dream I had was one including Kurt Cobain (who I had never really heard speak before) where he was in my house for a social event my parents will have been holding and he was sat on the floor in a corner of the well lit room near a sofa. He was sat so he had was holding his legs close to his chest, his arms wrapped around his legs and his chin resting on his knees whilst he was staring across the room. I went up to him and said ‘Hi’ and he suddenly looked up and just smiled and got up and hugged me which was surprising but I actually heard him talk and say ‘Hey’. The rest of the dream was just a general conversation with him to be honest and just talking about life before he said he had to go before he hugged me and walked through a door.
    My second dream included Jimmy and in the dream I was looking for a friend and I went through a dark, narrow corridor which made me feel slightly uncomfortable as I had to weave in and out of some walls that were sticking out at each side. I got to a slightly dimly light room where my friend was sitting on a black leather sofa with the same sofa opposite and a wooden coffee table in the middle that had crushed beer cans on it and an ash tray with cigarettes in it which showed people had been here but had left. I walked up to her and she got up and smiled and I started walking backwards, I accidently walked into someone and I turned around to see a tall, thin man with spiky black hair who I then realised was Jimmy Sullivan who was being shouted at by a man (He was accusing him of being a Satan worshipper and his band leading a cult which does happen with some bands) . Jimmy was listening to some music and I knew this as I could hear the drums clearly through his black headphones (one of which was in his right ear) I mouthed ‘Sorry’ for bumping into him and he smiled and mouthed ‘its fine’. I turned and walked towards the dark corridor with my friend and turned around to see Jimmy walking past the man and towards an open door with a bright light streaming through it, he then turned and waved at me whilst smiling so I smiled and waved back before he walked through and the dream ended.
    So they were the dreams I had and I just wondered if there was any meaning to them or not as I just thought they were very random as I hadn’t been thinking about these people at all.
    Thanks :)

  105. Rin says

    I’d just like to add that I’ve just remembered Kurt said something about feeling bored and a bit lonely when I asked him how he was but then he added that it didn’t matter that much that he didn’t talk to people much because he had time to ‘think about things’. I don’t know if this is important or not but I though I should say anyway.

  106. hector says

    I justo had a dream about a friend who passed away a few years ago but whe where not that close but un muy dream whe where back un graduation but in highschool not middle school and he was telling me that he remembered a time where we had a fight he said that he cried un the bathroom and then he hugged me. I know he visited me during a dream because he was just the way he was from the way he dressed to the way he talked and also because I didn’t have him in mind at all because we gotten quite distant . He made me understand that our friendship ment more to him than I thought :( and to appreciate all my friends and love ones. When I woke up I thanked him told him I also missed him and I felt at peace it is a wonderfull feeling

  107. skye says

    my best friend died 11-30-14 we werent talking at the time we had got into a misunderstanding and that nght he came to me in my dream and hugged me he told me something but i can’t remember what it was! could someone tell me what that dream means????

  108. Chloe Kitts says

    I feel that I had a visitation dream last night from my 22 year old brother that died suddenly 2.5 years ago.

    I t was so vivid and real and his messages were crystal clear. I was actually having a conversation with him in my dream and he said to me;

    “Say prayers for me as god will answer them. When you set a time aside to talk to me I’m there, it’s a space in time on hold. How are you, this is mad?! (He said this with a smile and it felt like he was saying that it was mad how he could communicate with me in this way).

    He also said; “There were two girls that used to make loads of room in the house and they took the place.” I’m not sure what he meant by this…

    Harvey was ringing my dad on his mobile from heaven and we all sat down to listen. I head his voice so vividly. When I went to ask him how he was and what it’s like there I woke up with a gasp and then burst into tears, I felt great and loved that he had come to visit but also very sad as it’s still so raw, and just brought to mind how he is not here anymore. :(

  109. melissa says

    My aunt passed away 2 weeks ago..very sudden.and known why….i loved her like my mom…last night I dreamt I was looking out my window…and she pulled up in her car..i ran outside to touch to see if she was real…she was….she said tell everyone to stop working about me..then I asked her how she died..she told me she had guide in her lungs….then she told me to make sure my son didn’t get in a car with someone who was drinking and driving..i said ok..then the dream ended…what could it mean??

  110. mrs.cave says

    About 2 years ago I had a dream of my uncle Lee who died of lung cancer. He died in 2010 march. I always looked up to him as my father since my real dad was never around. What I remember most was he came to my mom’s house and since my mom had 9 kids only 6 of us were there. My uncle Lee pulled up in the drive way. Came in the door and I was so excited to see him so we’re my 5 younger siblings. He told us to gather on the couch. He was using a cane which in real life he never used one as we sat on the couch he told us he became sick with cancer, that everything is going to be ok. He loojed so healthy yet ye had a cane. He said he loved each and everyone of us so much. And that he had to leave and it wasn’t goodbye forever. This dream means so much to me. I believe he came to me to deliver a message he couldn’t to my younger siblings. We were taken away from our mother in 2009. And never got to say goodbye to our uncle. So i truly believe he came to visit me.

  111. Shiloh weesdnd says

    So far I had 2 dreams that I remeber about a girl who passed I didn’t even know. Her name is talia, and she died of cancer. She did makeup videos and was very popular. I follow her and some fan accounts of talia. My dream that I know very well is that she moved into a new house near the mall and a Starbucks. The thing that confuses me is that I never met talia and I never had followed A LOT of fan accounts for her. I try to think she is watching over me but I never met her and she doesn’t know me either. It confuses me a lot

  112. Ashley Richards says

    My son passed away May 5, 2012 he was 4 months and 13 days old, Sunday December 14, 2014 I had a dream about my son he said ” I’m OK and I’m 9 years old” I have no clue where the 9 years old comes from but the dream was very real feeling. When I woke up my heart was flying and it felt like someone was staring at me. Was this my son really telling me he was OK?

  113. Swati Dwivedi says

    Hi, last night i dreamed about my mothers brothers wife who passed away, me and my boyfriend were in a room and i was telling him to leave the room asap as any moment she will come, and it will not look nice, all my family members were there.
    then next moment i am seeing him standing in front of my dead aunt, she was smiling at him, he was wearing black shirt, then he bend down to take her blessings( as we do in indian culture), she smiled and given her blessings, and then she looked at me and said but your father is planning your wedding in a months time.

    i really wan to know the meaning of this as i have a strong seance as she wanted to communicate something.

  114. Linda Anderson says

    I had a visitation dream last night. It involved me, my granddaughter and my maternal grandmother who died in 1943 before I was born. My mother was only 11 years old when her mom died of measles complicated by pregnancy she was only 34.
    In the visitation dream my granddaughter was holding a picture and she told me that it was a picture of my grandmother. Well I immediately told her that I wanted to see the picture, but before she showed me the picture I covered my eyes with my hands and quickly took them away to see in the picture a young beautiful woman with the most happiest of smiles. Her smile was so big and lovely it immediately made me so happy, the happiest I have ever felt in my life. Then the picture turned into a video and this beautiful woman (my grandmother) started to dance and float like a butterfly and she danced and danced and just kept releasing this most happy feeling. It was the most happiest of feelings that I have ever experienced. Then I woke up.
    The visitation is still with me.

  115. A says

    I had a visitation dream after a friend of mine committed suicide. I’d stayed up for 24 hours after news of her passing, due to grief. When I finally fell asleep I thought I’d be too tired to dream, but I “woke up” in the dream in a very dense fog so that I could only see a few feet in front of me. It was very calm and quiet, with my friend standing in front of me looking completely fine. It was so vivid and I could physically feel her presence. My dreams are never lucid and it was so real feeling. In the dream my friend laughed when she saw my astonishment and said “hey” and I asked “what is it like when you die?” She paused and said “it’s not like they say it is” and then I felt very comforted. The dream faded and I woke up the next day feeling very peaceful.

  116. Jesse says

    Last night I had a very vivid dream, which I now know was a visitation one.
    My nanny pawpaw, who passed away when I was a little over a year old, was in my bedroom.
    Me and my grandma (his widow) were talking in my room, and we heard someone say something. Then I turned to my left and there he was, playing with my 5 month old son. He walked up to me, and I asked him if I could have a hug. We hugged for so long and I got so emotional.. Then for some reason I asked him who his soul was connected with and he said mine.. Which is amazing to me considering I never really knew him. My mother and grandma have also both had dreams about him, but my mom can never touch him, and he never talks to my grandma.. So I must be pretty special. I want to dream about him like that again so I can figure out why he’s popping up in my dreams, and mind

  117. Arlene says

    My father passed from cancer 5 days ago. He was 75 years old and the cancer had taken a toll on his body, he looked 100.
    I am not a religious person and a skeptic when it comes to these things BUT things have changed for me now…
    On the night of his passing I left hospice around 9pm and whispered in his ear (he was unconscious at this point) that “he could let go now and that we would be ok”. My mother stay at his bed side like she did every night he was ill.
    At 11:55pm i received a call from my mother that woke me from my sleep. She said his breathing had changed but wasn’t sure if it was time yet. I wanted to get up and drive the 30 min back to hospice to be with him but I had taken a sleeping pill to help me sleep and there was no way i could drive 30 min. I felt terrible but had no other option. We hung up at midnight 5 minutes later. I feel back to sleep immediately because of the sleeping pill (tylenol PM was what i took). I then had my vision.
    I saw my father step out of the drivers side of a car and turn around, he was young late 30’s to early 40’s perhaps (no gray hair), he looked like he did when i was a child. his clothes were also from the time period and I remember them vividly. I remember thinking “wow look at him young and strong” he did not say anything to me. I just saw him and then I woke up suddenly and remember thinking “wow!!! I just saw my dad young and healthy”.
    I had an overwhelming feeling of having to know what time it was so I grabbed my cell phone which i always kept next to my bed and checked the time. To my surprise it was 12:10. Only 10 minutes had passed since i had hung up with my mother. I remember thinking “I need to remember 12:10, need to remember. I also found it strange that i actually woke up from a tylenol PM induced sleep only 9-10 after falling asleep.
    Anyways i turned my phone back off and went back to sleep. I received a call from my mom at 7am and she tells me “I’m home already because your father passed away a little after we hung up, he was declared dead at 12:10 so you would have never made it on time anyway…”.
    I swear my heart stopped, I began to shake and was consumed with great peace, joy and understanding. Some people tell me he can to say goodbye but I know that wasn’t his message to me (even though we did not speak a word). He came to let me know he was no longer sick and that there was more to life than what we can “see” and what we think we know.
    It is all still very fresh to me since its only been 5 days but I still sit here in amazement of it all. Just incredible to me that this happened but i know now that there is something else on the other side, something wonderful!
    hope this story can help if you are grieving
    thank you for reading, much love to all

  118. julie says

    I have had several dreams of people that have passed that I have never met. And people that passed due to someoneelses hand. I wasn’t sure what to do with that one. And then I saw them when I was awake. I wrote it down in my dream book. But my grandmother has left messages and just entered mu dreams and just sat and watched quietly.

  119. erin says

    Well one day when me and my mom were coming back from town and it was very dark out and I saw a very brite star and I said ” Star light Star bright the britghtest star I see tonight I wish I may I wish I might wish this wish I wish tonight.” Then I said ” I wish I could know if Logan remembered all the fun times we had together and knew I loved him as a friend before he passed.” and that night I had a dream where me, my mom and my sister were at Logan’s funeral and then he walked in but for some reason he wasn’t himself he didn’t look like him at all. And about 2 nights ago my mom had a dream where she was talking to one of her co-workers then she said the Logan walk by and started trying to talk to her co-worker. Then she woke up from her dream and started crying for him.

  120. rose says

    I believe I had a visitation dream. My friend died when I turned 16 and we had a rocky relationship. I loved him very much but before he died we weren’t talking. He had said some mean things to me. Just last night almost two years later he shows up in my dream. We hugged and he told me what it was like to die. We talked about just random things. Before I woke up he hugged me again and told me he was sorry for everything he said and that he did love me and he missed me. I woke up sad he was gone but happy I heard his voice and he said that. I really feel he communicated with me. I’m sad it took two years though. I miss him everyday. Visitation dreams are pretty real i believe. Why wouldn’t they be? (;

  121. Tasha says

    Two years ago I was very upset about a family issue. That night I went to bed and had the most vivid dream of my grandmother who had passed away 4 years prior. In my dream I was being driven to a house,( which I knew could not possibly be there because it burned down years ago). In font of the house stood my grandmother and great aunts who are still living. I got out of the car confused a bit because I knew in my dream that my grandma had passed. She came to me and gave me the biggest hug and kiss on the cheek like she would do when she was living. She told me, “Everything is alright”. Her mouth never moved but it was the feeling I got. That was the end.. I woke up crying uncontrollably because it was so real. I knew she was with me. This was the first and only time I have ever had a dream about her or anyone that has passed. I still don’t understand why my great aunts were in the dream though, since they are still alive.

  122. IMK says

    I had a dream about my recently deceased best friend, (15) who kept ignoring me and avoiding me no matter how much I begged her to tell me why she was doing it.
    I’d like to know what it means, please if anyone has an idea .

  123. Kay says

    My lovely Mum died in September 2013 …I woke last night what time I have no idea …I thought I was having a dream because suddenly a couple of familiar sayings that my Mum used to say came to me…my first thought was ‘oh I forgot mum said that …I will tell my sister tomorrow’s when I spk with her’
    After this I had a strange sensation of being elevated or moved I don’t really know how to describe it…..suddenly there was white clouds or mist then and I saw my Mum smiling at me …I immediately called to her ‘oh Mum your here she was healthy and smiling and held her hand out to me and I knew it was her because if the touch which I haven’t felt In years…she then went on to have a chat …which I can’t really remember all I know was she was holding both my hands and I didn’t want to let her go…she kind of faded slowly or maybe quickly I don’t know …I woke up still holding both of her hands. When I realised she was not there anymore I moved my hands to my face to find a trickle of tears. Today. I have Felt really peaceful and I know it was not a dream. My Mum suffered so much before she died … I really feel she came to me last night.

  124. taqiyya says

    I had aborted a child a couple years back my baby father just passed away January 1st 2014 I had a dream that I had the baby girl nd we was a family the baby was so small and light skinned kinda looked like my other daughter it just felt so real but I knew he was gone… I thought maybe he was trying to tell me he was with her and that it was a girl

  125. Elisha Gouge says

    My husband committed suicide on December 8th 2014. We were having trouble in I had move out due to his 34 years old son lived with us and had a drinking and drug problem i was in the process of moving back when he took his own life after two weeks of verbal abuse from his son which play guilty past childhood against his dad. Justin didn’t want me back into the home knowing I would take up for his dad. Anyways I had a dream so real and made me feel at peace I my chest didn’t feel as heavy my dream was Barry holding me tight I could feel his skin on his back as I kept rubbing his back telling him how much I love him and miss him. He never said a word. As I do research I am so happy and to read how hard it is for the spirit communicate with us. I am so thankful Barry find a way to comfort me. Every day since he left my life has been turn upside down I wake up at 3:00 every morning and hate been able to go back to sleep

  126. sadi says

    my first love just passed away December 2nd 2014, I have a child with him that is now 10 years old, the last time I got to actually see him was when my son was 3 years old. even though we lived in two different states, and I had found someone else and had children, and he had found someone else had children and got married, he was always the only man I have ever truly loved …with every fiber of my being. he hung his self in his uncle’s kitchen, I know that you recently found out his wife was cheating on him so he had left her. she kept on harassing him by calling him and rubbing this new man in his face, basically that this new man was going to move in and become the father figure of their children. after that phone call is when he hung his self. meanwhile I have been separated from my kids father for three and a half years, and the day that this happened I was at my friend trisha house and I had told her there is only one man in this world that I would leave everything and go back to and that was him (my first love) after finding out the news I was going crazy I love him so much I could not stop crying I was hurt to my soul. well a few days after his death I had a dream, this dream was different from any other dreams I ever had. in my dream he came up to me took my ring on my finger, put it back on my finger, and said now you have a meaning for this ring and smiled at me. I remember thinking how did he know I have no meaning for this ring. I had found a ring about 4 years ago and I wear it on my ring finger because it’s so beautiful and it is a wedding band. but nobody had bought it for me I had no meaning for it. the dream just made me have reassurance that he was with me ,still loved me and now we could be together. I don’t know the dream was very realistic has anyone else had any weird dreams like this? was this a visitation from him?

  127. sharron says

    Please hrlp me understand so ove had abdee dreams of my aunt who passedway in aprol 2014 from brain cancer we had a very love hate relationship i use to be her fav neice. An she wanted me to b her daughtee she never had any but she called cps over n over rill she gor me n my brothers taken drom my mom she would also tell me horrible rhings my mom dod to me as a kid to ake me hate my mom n appreciate her more she also hated her own mother my grandmother for aome of the same tgings she wanted me to.hate my mom for finally at 15 i told her u will mever b my mom n ill never hate my mother so she stpped talking to me n kicked me out if her house i am also only 1 day older thayn her son wich made me belive she really thought i was hers anyway when she wasbpassing away she would not allow me or a few other familyebers say good bye i was able ro go to the funeral after hwr death her other sister hooked up woth the husban ahe left.behimind u 12will years or ao ago theu had an affair n my aunt found out n cut that siater out of her lofe foe good she wasnt aloud even at the funeral wwll my aunt left a buch of jewls and some of the family stated she lwft some dor everyone i just dound out that actually beside hee kids she only to jerom dad two siaters and myseld the jewls were atolen by her.sons anyway thats what the husban days wich shows me she dis lovenm my last dream was he with a man i do not know i just new they were.good frownds and wvwryone on the famoly was thwee to say goodbye and o just had this wonderful peace feeling and her husban she lwft was holding a baby idk y also the an u could tell was a good friends of my aunt but i have never seen hom before anyway they drove up theis beautiful hill like in a woody cabin kind of road while we all waved bue i new in the dream sje would ne back it wasnt a goodbye for ever just more like a good bye dor a vacation and the sky was an orange pink blue. Sky beautiful vwry cloudy too but orange blue n pink clouds alao she dosnt have a baby either sose herbhusban then last night i had another dream an it was the christmas season cause ahe camw back looking so wonderful am healthy an happy amd o i member saying i thought u dided and she said i did but i was brought back to life months later i dont know how i guess they faked it so i could get away from y husban i said oo well im glad ir.home but.i new in the sream she did soe n came back bettrr months later but the feeling on the sram qas soo wonderful n happy am she was veru happy too but it felt like we were very close in the sream almost bonding and we juat keep looking at eachother tjen she givesnme a bag full of qrapped xmas gifts she said ahe had been wanting to.give me an againg my whole family was there not her s mine well her mom dad n her two sisters not the oneith tje husban now

  128. sharron says

    Part ywo of commer so ok eell i van tell were all happy n loving then o.pull another big bag out i dk if its the same bag my aunt gave me or i f i had my own but they look alike an i know it was meant for some one but all these maggots sttarted coming out but it seemes like i wasbthe onlyone frwaking out about it then afeq other things had maggots top bit ot seemed like i was tje only one ro notice it and o was worried tjen me n my neighbor started stressing on eavother i dont mber y i new the person amd i new tbebplace in my drwam i dont but whats a teip the whole time o new my aunt was smileing at me.n.i her we keep staring at eachotjer too n it was nive between is but then im trippimg on this weird ahit o do miss her n at the same rime o sisnt evwn lile hwe.much idk eat they mean im at a loae bur i always have qeirs srwams kinda like this and i havw the samw sreams over n over in my life i k ow the placea n people its a very calm lovong rwlax fewling tbat then turns ro panic n stress for me but not them n always i k.ow thr people n place in my drwam bit when i wake up i have no cue im trying so hars ro find oit wat they all mean sorry about the messed up spelling and all om pn a phone thats shitty qith ti y buttons n fay dingera alao im tryiing ro go faat cause y son is mad anyway off what i wrote please help me digure ot oug n i might add she looks way netterbthat she did healthy amd alive in my dram she almost looked ablil younger tjwn her age at death it could alao be the laat rome o sewn her wasbabpic n ahe was soop sollen.

  129. Angela says

    I think I had a visitation dream but not sure because I dreamt that I was at this house and I was in a room and this person goes staggering by drunk and this guy pulls up in a car to help his friend who had staggered by. I’m sitting there talking to someone, I look out the window and the guy is helping his friend walk to his car and their is someone helping him. I look closer and it’s my cousin who passed away 5 months ago.. I see him and I just froze my heart was beating fast and I was scared to see him. Suddenly there’s knocking on the door and I start freaking out saying “No I don’t want to see him”. I peak around the corner and there he is standing at the door I just kept saying I didn’t want to see him…. Someone say’s “He just wants to talk to you, go talk to him”. He walks up the stairs and sits down at the table but doesn’t say anything just sits there with his head down, So I walk up to the table and ask him how he’s doing he replies and says “good”. He had his school work with him so I asked if I could look at it.. He hands the papers to me, I look at the date and it says 2/7/14. I look up at him and say “(his name), this was almost a year ago” he doesn’t reply at all still sitting there with his head down then he say’s he going to go now so I told him I loved him and missed him and before walking out the door he stops looks at me and says ” I love you too” and walks out.

    Why was I scared to see him? I still don’t know why….

  130. Mags says

    I separated from my husband 2 years ago, I had no choice I had to . I hadn’t been in touch with him due to circumstances and I had a young child, he had his demons…it’s a long story.
    On the 10th of November 2014 I had a dream that he came to me, we hugged each other floating in a very slow spin in darkness with little sparkles of light around us. It was lovely and I dreamt about the good times we had together (not the bad). He didn’t talk, I could feel his love and happyness. He gradually moved higher, I was looking up at him as he smiled down at me, sparkles spinning around us, gradually he descended in to the darkness – It’s hard to explain. It was as if he was saying good bye and a last time together. It was a Lovely calm dream no tears just happiness. I knew then how much I loved him and I felt his love from him. He knew I tried to help him but he could not stop drinking.
    In life my divorce lawyer hadn’t heard from him. The month before that he told her he didn’t want a divorce. I passed his house over a month i noticed his car hadn’t moved. I called his father to ask him if he had heard from him. He hadn’t, I suggested he should call the police to make sure he’s ok. I had called the police the month before because his car had not moved and again my lawyer didn’t hear from him.
    On the 25th November his father called the police to check on him. I received a call late that night to identify my husband. I was totally devastated I could not believe it. He was found dead in his bed and had been dead for at least two weeks fitting in with the same time I had my dream. Was this a visitation dream before he passed away?
    When having this dream I knew then how much I love him, but he had his demons that he could not stop. The dream has helped me a lot because I do feel he came to me to say good bye. I knew I loved him, he still loved me and he was at peace now. When I went to the house it was calm and I was told he died in his sleep peacefully.

  131. Amanda says

    I just recently had a cousin pass at the age of 26 on the 26th of December 2014 . a few nights ago I had a dream of him telling me he was OK and that he was with bears not sure if grizzly bears or stuffed animals bears. He was in active duty in the air force before he passed. Anyone know what this means?

  132. s.m.vallikkannu says

    my father passed away 3 months ago.he is coming in my dream often.he died in an accident and he says I am alive what does it mean and wen someone comes to my house to ask condolence they are shocked to see my father again what does the dream convey

  133. Shannon says

    My closest cousin had recently passed away in December of 2014, in his early twenties. A few days after we had the funeral for my cousin, I started to have realistic dreams about him. In my first dream, he was in my living room, saying that he was “alright now.” I was so happy, so I went over to hug him. His voice sounded so clear, like he was really talking. Then, he put his arm around me, as if to hug me. I really felt the weight of his arm on my shoulder. I mean, I actually saw his freckles that were on his arm. And just like other people,my cousin had this certain…scent to him. It was if I could actually smell his clothes. It was so cool. He said to me that he missed me, and he loved me. It just felt so real, it was nice to hear his voice. He stayed right next to me as I walked around. When I woke up, I honestly knew that that was him, saying that he was okay, and that he loved me. I have had other dreams similar to this, but this dream stuck with me the most.

  134. jc says

    My Grandfather had died while I was in high school. 20+ years later, I dreamt that he came to visit me. We had a great visit, walking through a garden. We then came into a church and there was a coffin in the aisle. He told me that he had to leave me now but that he wanted me to know that he was so proud of me and happy that I married a great man and had 3 wonderful daughters. I woke up crying and called my mother. She told me that he had actually died that same day, 24 years earlier.

  135. Martha says

    My loved one took his life on December 12,2011, we had been together for twenty years (not married) had two children but had decided to separate about a year before this happened. He had been seeing someone before we broke it off and was having issues with that relationship before the suicide. As a medical professional and his friend I tried very hard to be there for him, I needed him around for our children. Despite my efforts he left us, he has since visited me several times in my dreams but would tell me he was not dead, just hiding…about three months ago almost three years to the date of his passing he visited me but this time he assured me everything was fine. He didn’t want me to worry anymore. He hasn’t visited me since, even though I keep asking him to…well my family says he’s finally at rest…I suppose it could be true, but I miss him.

  136. tabitha says

    My husbands ex-wife Amanda has passed away 1 year ago in a car Accident. A few days after her passing I had a very vivid about her. In my dream I was sitting on a couch with my husband and Amanda came walking in and asked my husband if she can talk to him, so I said ok and went into another room and waited while they talked. But i can over hear her saying to him how much she has always loved him since they where kids and sorry for all the stupid things that she has done to him when they where married and after and sorry it never worked out. She was crying when she was saying this and I looked at my husband and he wasnt talking to her it was like he cant see her but can hear her and he started crying to. Then she laid her head on his shoulder and whispered to him that i couldn’t hear. he hugged her and just said okay. I started crying because it was sad and she got up touched my arm and walked out. I woke up from the dream and I thought about it all day and I was still feeling sad. I dont know why. But I told my step daughter that is living with us that i had a dream about her mom last night and she told me ” What….you did?!?!? I had a dream about her too last night and I started crying…me and my mom had a log talk like we always did …like she was here in person”. I dont know why I had Amanda in my dream to talk to my husband and not me…it was weird but very sad….one of those dreams that you just cant stop thinking about. I know they never got along and he did not like her very much..they did not have a good relationship at all.

  137. Quintin says

    Last night I had what I believe to be a Visitation dream. This is the fourth one that I have had in the past year. It is always of my Grandfather he recently passed away (last year) Since birth my grandfather and I have always had a special connection! The first one that I had I do not remember.. The second one I did not see his face but he put his arm around me and told me that he was alright and he gave me a hug. then he simply asked me to get him a beer so on my way back from getting the beer i walked onto the porch that he was on near the old house he used to live in I clearly remember seeing my father who is still alive. After I handed him the beer I woke up and was really freaked out and confused but also happy! the third time I do not recall either.. But last night was different I was sitting on a couch making out with a girl she all of a sudden says that she doesn’t want to make out anymore and i’m like okay? All of a sudden I look to my right and he’s standing there same as last time he says that he is okay but in addition he tells me to keep doing what i’m doing. I don’t believe I said anything to him and if I did I don’t remember. The weird thing was that while making out with this girl i was fully clothed but when I stood up to look at him I did not have pants on and he said some other things that I do not remember (hopefully it comes to me) but to his left this weird looking portal or something was building into the wall he kept talking I could not here him but I must of been eager to see where he went I walked into the next room which had people in it I pulled the shirt I was wearing over my genitals I dont remember what these people looked like but i know that when I walked in the person on the end looked at me then I woke up.

    Please try to help me figure this out if you have any ways of explaining this and letting me know of how i can talk to him and ask him things that would be amazing! Thanks

  138. Vicki says

    I’ve had a visitation dream from the same person. They were both where were spending the day together, walking around talking etc. Both times I woke up in the morning feeling happy, like we had actually spent that time together.

  139. Haley says

    A couple days after one of my best friends died, I was taking it really hard. My friend Tyler died in a car accident. I cried for like two weeks straight and it was the worst pain I ever experienced in my life. One night I had gone to sleep and when I woke up I had the most amazing feeling in my body. That night I dreamt that I was in a car, and I looked up in a building and in the very top window, my friend Tyler was standing there. I got out of the car and shouted his name. And he yelled down at me to be quiet. I remember his words, “shhh, Haley you have to be quiet nobody can know I’m here.” Then he said to me, “Haley everything’s going to be okay and you will be okay.” When I woke up that morning I was amazed and I couldn’t believe the Dream that I had. I miss him so much.

  140. diane says

    When my brother passed I miss him and thought I would never see or talk to him again..until one night I dreamt I was in this room with a lot of people standing in line crying. There was a person standing along side them smiling and watching over these people (as a matter of fact my sister who was still alive was in this line crying like everyone else in this line and she was still alive but passed away a few years after my brother). Then I saw my brother who walked away to another room and ran up after him calling out his name. He stopped and smiled at me and I told him I wanted to talk to him and I wanted him to call me and he told me he couldn’t but I kept begging him to. I followed him into a room with many doors and he walked over to one and said he would see me later and told me good bye. He opened the door and a bright light was shining from the other side of the door and he smiled at me and went into the light then I woke up. I just laid there for a few minutes and realized that he was telling me that he is OK and goodbye for now…I really miss him but having that dream made me feel happy for him cause he is in a good place. I never had a dream of him since then….

  141. Cris says

    I had a visitation dream about my dad 2 nights ago. He passed away 23 years ago and all of my siblings had dreamt about him but me. In my dream I saw my dad working on something. He was very busy. He never looked up at me and he never spoke a word to me but he did come up to me and gave me the biggest hug I’ve ever had. I seriously could feel it cuz it was so tight. I didn’t want to wake up but I did and at first I felt relieved and happy that he finally came to me but as the day went on I was crying just like I am now cuz I just don’t understand why he didn’t say something to me. I miss him just as much today as I ever did and I guess I should just be thankful after 23 years that I had that dream.

  142. Megan says

    I had a visitation dream 2 years after my nan passed away. In the dream I was lay in bed and I heard my nans voice downstairs and I was thinking to myself “why haven’t I see her for so long” (I guess when in dream state I forgot about the fact that she was actually dead and thought I just hadn’t seen her for ages). I got up and went downstairs and my nan was sat talking to my mum, grandad and other nan. I went up to her and gave her a hug, and she hugged me back tightly just like she always used to do. During the hug she whispered to me, “if a boy ever says no to you, don’t worry, your a strong girl” she then whispered something about me deserving something but it was too quiet for me to hear. Then I woke up. The dream was that powerful and realistic I immediately burst into tears, both happy that I had seen her and sad because I missed her. i didn’t know about visitation dreams at this point, but I KNEW it was real!

  143. Christine says

    I had a visitation dream last night with my ex-husband, this is not the first one I have had since he pasted away in 2006 by suicide. In other dreams he would be very sweet and we would just hang out and talk and he would tell me that he is okay. The dream I had last night has left me shaken because he asked me for help and told me he does not know what to do. He wanted to show me something and walked a little ways and then these little creatures appeared, he called them “Creepers” and told me to hide. I woke up after that. I wish I knew what it all meant.

  144. Marissa padilla says

    I’m not too sure if I had it a visitation dream but this morning ihad a dream that I’ve seen my cousin who have passed on back in 2010and I kept calling for him wondering where he was and I was with another cousin as well and he told me that he will be ok and that he would be coming back soon. the cousin that told me that he will be back soon has not passed away.but when my cousin who did passed on appeared in my dream I ran towards him gave him a big hug and told them that I loved him and I was in tears and he told me to not worry that he will always be there for me. It felt kind of strange at first and then the next second it felt real and I wanted to call him but I knew I couldn’t and I guess that’s what made it harder on me.

  145. Chrystal Harper says

    I have had visitation dreams from my mother before, she passed away in 1998. usually it is just us, sitting in the kitchen of our old house and talking. She knows she is dead but we talk about dad and my sisters and the like. It is comforting.
    However, last night I had two dreams that concerned me. The first was with my mother, and we were driving somewhere, I get the feeling of going home, so that was probably it, and my father was driving. Something woke me up, but I fell back to sleep almost immediately (which also never happens) and had a similar dream only this time it was my aunt Sharon, who passed away just last year. Again my father was driving and I was in the back seat and we were headed home.
    I have no idea what it could mean, but the fact that my father was in the dream twice in one night concerns me. My dreams are usually very odd, things like red cats in Egypt, meeting Johnny Depp or Shamu in a hot tub. I only ever dream of family when it means something. I tried looking up the dreams on line but the meanings didn’t quite fit with the feelings.
    Can anyone offer any suggestions as to what it could mean?

  146. KC says

    I just woke from a visitation dream. Near three weeks ago a best friend of mine died instantly when he struck a hydro pole with his car. This tragedy rocked my community of friends as he had made such an imprint on so many.
    I had been waiting for any sign of comforting communication, I’d even stare at the sky and beg. After hearing a friend had a visitation dream, I figured this would be his choice of communication.
    He loved the beach. Something about the warm sand and the hot sun made him feel alive. He and I never went to the beach together (this is how I know this is not a rememberence dream) but we did hang by his pool and go for a dip in his backyard from time to time.
    Last night I very sequentially had a dream that a bunch of friends were having a party at a beach house I’ve never seen before. My friend who passed was not at this party, but when I stepped outside alone at one point he appeared behind me.
    He called me by my nickname and we hugged for a very long time. I felt his limbs and look into his eyes and said “but Kyle, you’re dead” he put his hands on my shoulders and looked at me and said “awww, I know. But we have right now!?”
    So we bounced around and twirled eachother on the shoreline as the sunset. I don’t remember going back into the house, what happened next was like I had woke up at the party after passing out and it felt like I was very intoxicated. Shortly after this I woke up (as I realized my wallet was missing from my purse! Lol)
    He wasn’t in anymore of the dream, and I don’t know what it signifies, but we’d always dance together and he had always wanted to come up to my cottage.
    Part of me thinks that was us dancing on the shore at my cottage in a symbolic way. I do believe this was real, and I do believe it was him. I woke up peaceful but also very ecstatic that he had come to me.

  147. Maja says

    I dreamt a girl I knew, she killed herself 2 weeks ago(night I had a dream it was exactly 14 days after she committed suicide). She was standing near bus station,in my street,I was walking towards her, in the whole dream I knew that she is dead and everything.. We hugged and talked, I told her that for whatever reasons she killed herself I don’t judge her and I understand her. She was really,really sad, I have never seen her that sad when she was alive.She was wearing head scarf around her neck *(she hanged herself) We sat on a bench,in the same street,next to me man was sitting,he looked at me strange time to time.Next minute I thought to ask him(if he sees somebody is sitting next to me) I said this will sound strange but please answer, before I could ask him, he said what is more strange than you sitting and talking with yourself? I looked to the other side to make sure she is still there and she was,sitting next to me. I realized I was the only one who see her. She had to go catch a bus(bus I go with everyday),she couldn’t miss it for some reason. While bush was approaching to the station it hit a pigeon before she got into the bus. I ran home and next minute,her parents came and said to me, why aren’t you ready, we are going to the cemetery. And that is where dream ends. I woke up with big smile,after a long long time, I can’t remember last time I woke up with smile.
    There is a belief that 40 days,after person dies, the person’s spirit is still here walking. Their soul wanders between us, until 40 days pass when they leave this world to another place.

  148. Natalia says

    I’ve been having visitation dreams from dead relatives and friends. Last one happened a couple of days ago, very real of a relative that died a year ago in a very tragic way. I had not been close to her for years so it was strange when she hugged me in my dream the way she did. Most of my relatives that visited me in my dreams were dressed in white. However, two of them where in regular clothes. The ones that were dressed in white lived pretty calmed lives, family lives. The other two didn’t. One of them died in a very terrible way, she was wearing regular clothes. My grandfather was also wearing regular clothes. I hate to say it, and judge him, but he was not a fair man, and as a grand daughter he was ok not so much as a father, spouse or neighbor..but I am not judging him just giving a little more info to support my dream. Not to mention that My only question is could that be the difference in clothing? Anyone have any other theories or ideas. Could it be they are in different places? Any insight or thoughts..thank you.

  149. Bridget Elliott says

    I sincerely believe I had a visitation dream from my Grandma who passed away May 2006, the same day my cousin got married. It had been 6 months since she passed and I was afraid of her coming to see me so I slept with the light on, thinking that would help. I was walking towards some steps and up to wall that blocked my view until I reached the top. The steps were few. I saw her coming and immediately started to cry and tell her,”Oh Grandma, I miss you. I miss you so much.” She looked at me and said, “Stop that crying, Gal.” I asked her what was she doing, (in my head trying to figure out why she was there). She told me, “Oh, I’m just resting in the Lord.” From that night on, I felt such a peace and didn’t need to sleep with the light on anymore.

  150. Kim B says

    I’ve had 4 visitation dreams
    1. My father passed away unexpectedly in 2001. I had not seen him in a few years. The night I finallly processed his death I had a dream he was sitting on the edge of the bed apologizing for everything. Left us abruptly and never gave a reason why in 1978.
    2. My gramma passed in 07 from cancer She too came to me in my room and said she loved me forever and is still here for me
    3. My high school friend died by suicide in 2014. He came in a dream to tell me to eat the corned beef he would be right back and not to leave. I ate the corned beef in my dream and waited and waited he never came back I hate corned beef
    4. My friend just passed yesterday. We learned on Thursday evening she was not going to make it though the night. That night I woke up out of a sound sleep thinking she had walked in our bedroom and flew out the window. She died at 1123 a m the next morning.
    Comment suggestions concerns. PleAse

  151. Kristen says

    I had a dream about my grandma “gingi” it was real but strange at the same time, she was well but I didn’t know if I was imagining her, so I asked someone if they could see her sitting there, they indeed could, I remember hugging her and feeling her soft wrinkled hands and not wanting her to leave, I was frantically trying to find my 2 sisters so they could see her, my oldest sis was asleep and said she couldn’t because she had to get up early and I could only find my other sisters 2 daughters, gingi was riding a horse and I remember seeing their hooves from under the fence, I also told her she has been dead for longer than what I knew her and she said yes, you are right it has . I miss that woman terribly and wish I could see her in my dreams more and can’t wait until we meet again

  152. Lynn says

    In the very early morning of Sunday Feb 8, 2015, I think I had a visitation dream from my brother-in -law, who was murdered on Feb. 11, 2013.

    The dream was very clear. I was kneeling over my husband, who had just passed away in my dream. I was asking my brother-in -law for help, not to take my husband from this world and allow him to stay with me. My brother-in-law told me that he could not help me, but for me to know that my husband will be find and be with him.

    This dream has certainly cause me to me worry a bit. Was it a sign from my bother-in-law, that my husband will soon pass away or was it another message.

    If there is any way that someone can help me to understand this message, I would very much appreciate it. I have been crying now for two days, checking on my husband in the middle of the night. Talking to my brother-in-law when no one is around. I feel like I’m going crazy.

    Please help.

  153. Em says

    My brother committed suicide back in 2010 and all my siblings had very scary dreams about him. I was scared to dream about him after their experiences and expressed my fears to my dad. He told me that my brother loved me and not to fear him. I had a dream about him about a month after his death and it was so comforting. It was bright and sunny and he had on orange sunglasses and he was dancing. He told me he was getting on a train and then I woke up. I lost a lot of my memory after he died from the trauma after it, so I don’t totally recall everything he said to me, just that I felt really good after I woke up.

    In August, I had another dream about him, this one much longer and vivid. I was grateful. We were at the last house he lived at with us before his death and we went to a bonfire together. I was scared because there was drinking and I wasn’t used to that kind of atmosphere, so I stuck close to him and he made me feel safe. In my dream, it took me a few seconds to realize that he shouldn’t be at the bonfire because he had died, but once I remembered I just wanted to not think about his death and ask questions. I just wanted to enjoy his company. I made a new memory with him even after his death and I enjoyed that dream very much. It was as if everything was back to normal and it made me remember the way he talked and laughed and the phrases he liked to use.

    I don’t really care to analyze my dreams and wonder if they have any meaning. I’m okay with it just being my subconscious’ way of dealing with my feelings, now five years later. I never really grieved. I’d like to think that Dalton really is able to visit me in my dreams, but I wonder why he’s only done it twice in five years?

  154. Elisa says

    I have had a couple of visitation dreams where I was visited by my pet dog who died a couple of years ago. She was over 16 years old when she died and very sick at the end. Both times the visitation was exactly the same. She came through a door from which I could see a blinding white light shining behind it. The door then closes and she is sitting in front of me looking the picture of health. I stroke and cuddle her and smother her with kisses and she seems so happy to be there and I am filled with so much joy at seeing her again. After a while she leaves through the same door again and I am not aware of anything more until I wake up. When I wake up I feel so peaceful and glad to have seen her again. It makes me smile for the rest of the day. It seems so real, like she is really there. I still love her so much and I am happy to know that she can still visit me from time to time so we are never apart.

  155. Arlene says

    I lost my husband a year ago and can’t seem to get used to not having him here. We had a great marriage and I know I am lucky to have had him in my life for some 55 years, but still feel like my purpose for living also died along with him. I recently have had several visitation dreams in which he is either hugging me and consoling me or telling me thing will be okay. In my first vivid dream he told me he should have taken better care of himself so we could be together longer. He died at home after a long battle with cancer, with his family around him. I know he misses all of us and hope this is his way of letting us know he’s okay and we will be together again.

  156. Delma says

    My daughter had a dream with my father, who pass away two years ago, where he was sitting on a chair, he did not say a word, but there was a very bright light behind him. She said he was not sad, but he was just sitting in the chair like he would when he was alive and in his home.

  157. Arlene says

    I made plans to meet an old friend for lunch. His wife died several years ago, she was a dear friend of my husband who recently died also. I had one of my vivid dreams of my husband and It felt like I was awake when my friends wife came in sight and said say hi to my husband for me! It felt so real. Maybe they are together as when they were young?

  158. Pauline says

    My husband passed away April 2014, I had a dream the other night that I seen his face and he was his younger self and he gave me a kiss on the lips and he had such a peaceful look on his face..I felt so at peace with myself…What does it mean?/

  159. Emma says

    I think I have just had a visitation dream from my dad, it felt so real and in it he told me to “be happy” which does make sense because I have been very stressed lately and i sat thinking about my dad last night before I went to bed, have been thinking a lot about him recently and do really appreciate him coming to visit me xxx

  160. Zoe Reddington says

    I went to bed as normal and was lying in bed, don’t even remember falling asleep so don’t know if I was asleep or awake when this happened to me.
    The end of the bed went down at my feet asif someone had sat down, I was very nervous about this and then all of a sudden I felt the matteress go down behind me and I felt an arm come over me asif someone was cuddling me,At This point I was frightened to death so I clenched my eyes shut and was saying Go Away you’re scaring me,what’s going on. The feeling was still there so I reached out and felt an arm that was over me,which was skinny and also felt a face with stubble on it. I was terrified and couldn’t help but to open my eyes to see a black shadow of a mans face side on and seen what looked like a quiff that had fell over to one side as there head was leaning to one side, this has frightened me and even got to the point I’m scared of being alone in the house and scared to get in my own bed incase it happens again. My dad passed away 5 years ago and also lost my son that died at 14hours old,the more I think about this the more scared I’m getting and it’s not good because I’ve never experienced anything like this before and don’t understand what’s going on and if I was awake or not, Can someone help me and reassure me. Thank you

  161. Calisha says

    I had two visitation dreams. One was about my aborted sister (she would’ve been about 8 years older than me). My living sister and I were in this “space” (I call it a space because I don’t know where it was. It was just a peaceful non descriptive environment), and we met our aborted sister. She looked older than a baby would, between the ages of 15 & 20. We hugged each other. We were so ecstatic to meet her that when I woke up (unfortunately my brother called me on the phone in real life and interrupted my dream), I felt like crying from joy. I didn’t realize who my sister was until I told my living sister about my dream. I was like “I had a dream we met our other sister, but I know we don’t have one”. That’s when my sister was like “That was our sister that was aborted before you were born”. I REALLY knew it was a visitation when I told my mom about the dream, and she said paused and told me that the same night, she heard a voice tell her “*Giggle* Mommy, I’m ok. It’s alright, now. I made it Mommy, I made it! They call me (name here)! I’m so happy, now! I love you.”

    The other dream was about one of my great grandmothers, who I never met. She was trying to tell me where my grandfather’s favorite knife was. She would use it for various things around the farm after he died. She showed me where it was–stuck in a piece of wood and stashed inside a locked drawer.

  162. Ashanti says

    I had two visitation dreams. One was about my aborted sister (she would’ve been about 8 years older than me). My living sister and I were in this “space” (I call it a space because I don’t know where it was. It was just a peaceful non descriptive environment), and we met our aborted sister. She looked older than a baby would, between the ages of 15 & 20. We hugged each other. We were so ecstatic to meet her that when I woke up (unfortunately my brother called me on the phone in real life and interrupted my dream), I felt like crying from joy. I didn’t realize who my sister was until I told my living sister about my dream. I was like “I had a dream we met our other sister, but I know we don’t have one”. That’s when my sister was like “That was our sister that was aborted before you were born”. I REALLY knew it was a visitation when I told my mom about the dream, and she said paused and told me that the same night, she heard a voice tell her “*Giggle* Mommy, I’m ok. It’s alright, now. I made it Mommy, I made it! They call me (name here)! I’m so happy, now! I love you.”

    The other dream was about one of my great grandmothers, who I never met. She was trying to tell me where my grandfather’s favorite knife was. She would use it for various things around the farm after he died. She showed me where the knife was–stuck in a piece of wood and stashed inside a locked drawer.

  163. alogyn says

    My mom passed away a year and 3 months now. A week before her 1 year death anniversary, I saw her in my dream. In a church, that all of my relatives wear all white. She look so alive in that dream. She talk to me and said,” every time you visit me I will give you a letter and strands of my hair”._.. I’m just curious until now the meaning of what she said. Can you please help me interpret bout the meaning of she said? Please? Thank you.

  164. says

    Just woke up today and had a dream I was listening to Karen Carpenter, who died in 1973. I was born in 1970. I even woke up with a specific song she sang! And in the dream she was alive??

  165. ronda says

    My mom recently passed, last night I had a dream that she called me from her phone. It was garbled and kept cutting out, I kept saying hello, and after a few attempts I heard my mom. I don’t recall what she said, but it was only one word and she was crying. I started yelling and told her I needed more. the phone went dead, and I dropped to the ground and cried super hard.

  166. robyn contreras says

    Hi. I had a dream last year about my grandfather. He was in the hospital in a coma and the doctors were telling us he was brain dead. The day beforewe let him go he came to me in a dream saying “let me go; everything will be okay tell your mother that i love her so much” and walked up to this giant white gate and he looked back at me and nodded his head. I wanted to know if this was a release dream or not. I really hope you reply back i really need an answer. I always look back on that day and ask myself if it was real or if i… Just made a bad desition telling my mom before we cut him loose. Please reply i need an answer.thank you.

  167. Joann Hanson says

    I had a dream last night that i saw and spoke to my grandfather. I’am 70 years old and my grandfather passed away when i was 5 years old . I have never that i could remember dreamed of my grandfather before.. I have of my mom and grandmother and other relatives, but never my grandfather whom i dearly love even tho i never really new him. In my dream i walked up to him and said “Grandpa” and hugged him. In my dreamed i noticed i was young like i was when he was alive. The next day he died and i was speaking to my aunt who has also past away, telling her that i saw him and spoke to him. When i woke up i felt a love and peace that maybe they are letting me know that when it is my time to go they will all be waiting for me. I’m not afraid of dying. But i’am hoping when i do die they will all be there for me…

  168. Barbara McNulty says

    I had a dream of me sitting in a recreation hall talking to some people .I looked up there were 2 sets of slidding glass doors .My husband who passed 9/17/14 was trying to get out the doors .I told him to try the other door ,he did then turned and smiled at me went through the door ,he started running then dropped to his knees after about 50 ft.I started to run to him woke before reaching him.

  169. Holly says

    Thankyou for this information it was really helpful to me. My brother Dion passed away in 2008, while I was 3 months pregnant with my first child who I named after him Kaleah-Dee ( I always called him Dee ). Since then I’ve had 3 more children, my baby is 5 months old and recently I had a dream of walking with my girls home crossing a road walking up stairs to find a policeman sitting waiting for me unsure why the policeman was at my house waiting so I handed my baby boy to a friend told hold while I got my keys out to unlock the door. I’m in a house that in real life I don’t recognize. the front door was open so I thought oh my partner must be home! Walking in the house and through to the kitchen to find my brother washing dishes at the sink. I said oh my god I have missed you so much and cuddled him telling him i loved him, I said” Dion you have to meet your nephew” and he never said a word but he had this cheeky grin on his face looking back at me as if to say I’ve already met him!!! I woke up so happy and while i was hugging him in my dream it felt so real. I will never forget this dream I woundered if this was a message or a sign and you information made it clear to me now thankyou very much :)

  170. Michelle says

    I had what I believe is my first ever visitation dream 4 nights ago. It’s taking me a few days to figure out what it was with a little research. But mine is a little strange.

    It was my cousin Jeff who I was really close when we were growing up and I moved away when I was 9 or 10 and didn’t see him much after that maybe when we would visit in the summer but the older I got I wouldn’t go visit. He got sick when he was 19 and past away when he was 24. My dream was me grown up how I am now but he still looked the same and we went down to visit family and he came walking in and he gave me the biggest hug ever and we just hugged for what seemed like an hour, then he left and I was at a cookout with my family and every was laughing and dancing and he came back and I told him I missed him and I woke up. It’s been 20+ years since he passed and I don’t know why he came, but I remember after waking up that I felt calm but a little sad. I still feel that hug and maybe that’s what I needed. Wish I knew why he came I haven’t thought about him in a very long time.

  171. Bridgette says

    I had just gone to sleep at around 7:30 and had dreamed about a friend that I had been involved with romantically many years ago. We never had a steady relationship because the timing was never right. But I have always had strong feelings for him. In my dream he was trying to take me with him but his best friend that had passed away several years ago kept saying no she can’t go with you. The next day I found out that my friend had died in a car accident around 8:30. Do you think he was trying to communicate with me.

  172. lluvia says

    what does it mean to dream your brother who past away 5 years ago telling you that he is tired and wants to go home? He was killed by someone idk if it means that he cant rest until that someone gets justice for what he did to him. Please help. What do i do?

  173. Kristine says

    My Mom suffered from brain tumors for 12 years and in late 2013 we learned that she was not going to live past 6 months. We were thankful to have my Mom 14.5 months. My Mom died on March 17, 2015. On March 16th, I was so depressed and wondering if I could go on seeing her go through the Hospice process of dying. That night, I could not get to sleep, so at 2:00 am I started saying the rosary to make myself go to sleep. That night I had a visitation dream. I was sitting beside her Hospice provided bed holding her hand, and I looked at the end of the bed where she way laying, and she was sitting on the corner of the bed looking beautiful. She looked like she did in the last 70’s, hair perfect, blue eyeshadow perfect, and wearing a light color of some sort. She said to me smiling…. “It is all okay.. you will be okay… don’t worry”. The next morning (March 17th), I woke up feeling odd and told my aunt what happened…. she said – your Mom visited you last night. I had never heard of something like this before. Now that I read your article, I truly believe it was a visitation dream. She died at 2:36 pm and I felt that she was at peace. There were several other things that happened over the month I was at home with her going through the dying process and even a few things happened after she passed. To me, March 17th is the luckiest day of the year even though Mom died…. because, on the 17th I finally knew she was not sick anymore and that she was happy.

  174. Kristen says

    What if the person appears ill at first, but then magically goes back to the way you remember them? I had a dream about my grandma that I’m pretty sure was a visitation dream. At first she was lying in bed and looked ill, but when I came into the room and started talking to her she instantly got up and became the grandma that I remember. She told me she loved me, and it felt very real. If you think that was still a real visitation dream?

  175. Josephine says

    I have had many visitations from father who passed away when I was 20. He was my best friend in the whole world and I was his. Recently I’ve been having weird dreams about him that suggest that he’s not dead and when I see him face to face it’s really him but the connection that we share is distant as if it’s not him. These dreams upset me because we were so close. In these dreams I always mistake him as a stranger until I look up and then it dawns on me that he’s my father. I get extremely excited and always waiting for the right time to ask why did he allow me to believe that he was dead all these years but the right time never comes along. His visits are short, he’ll express his love by embracing me and telling me he loves me but he doesn’t have the sparkle in his eye the way he use to when he looks at me. I always try to leave with him to catch up on lost time but he won’t let me go with him there’s always an excuse or reason as to why I can’t go. This can’t be my father because my father would always let me go with him. My father never told me no. I’m so confused by these dreams!

  176. Monica says

    On boyfriend recently passed away on March 22, 2015 from kidney and heart failure. Two to three weeks after he passed I saw him standing in my hall way. I was sitting on my recliner as if I was waiting for him. When I saw him he didn’t look sick anymore but he was still wearing the same clothes he passed in. The girls were asleep in the couch and as he was walking to the couch to sit down all I could hear is him telling me about all my bad dreams I’ve been having lately. He also asked me what was I dreaming about but to me everything I’m going through now is like a bad dream. The dream felt so real but the minute he sat on the couch wit the girls I could see him talking to me but I couldn’t hear what he was saying. At that moment I felt that that was the only thing he could to see me because that was the time he passed away. What kind of dream was that.

  177. Waiping says

    Hye, my ex-bf passed away 3months ago..we had a relationship about 8 years plus and at last broke up before he died. And i could not attend his funeral because of my family not allowed. And since from that day onwards, i always had a dream of him talk to me and chat with me. But most of my dream, he always wont talk but will write something anywhere and will show to me to read. And currently i had a dream that he chat with me and asked to come and meet him at his hometown as he is waiting for me there. And what is the answer for this dream please ?

  178. jessica wilson says

    i had a visitation from my dad a few times the first one with him was within a week he comes to tell me hes sorry and he loves me and hes crying and sitting on a bench the second dream is we are on the road together on the semi and were talking making jokes just having fun and it felt so real then my dream was over about 5 years later he came to me again. i was chasing my daughter through the park something caught my eye i looked to my right and seen my dad sitting on a bench in the park i stopped and ask him what are you doing he said waiting i said waiting on what and i had no answers my dream was over i haven’t dream of him sense then i miss him and wondering if hes ok is he trying to tell me anything what i want know is where is he and why is he still waiting.

  179. Kerry says

    I have a brother who died in a car accident about 7 years ago now and I believe this dream probably happened a year ago(?). My family was over at my grandmothers house and as I arrived I walked through the front door and could hear everyone talking in the den. Which is basically an extra living room my dad added on to her house years ago. So I walk downstairs into the den and before I step into the room where everyone else is my brother is standing there and he doesn’t say anything at all. He just hugs me tight for a long time. Then after he hugs me he looks at me and we walk into the den and I sit with the family and talk. Then I woke up. I believe this was some sort of visitation/message because I didn’t grow up with this brother. We had different fathers and he was much older than me. I didn’t know him well and wasn’t very close with him as a result. Of course I loved him because he was my brother. But there really was no connection with us in this life. Also I was going through a horrible depression and I remember actually saying to myself before bed how badly I needed a hug and to be comforted. In my dream he was young and healthy and his embrace felt so real and I felt so much love and it made me feel like everything was going to be alright. I wish so badly to have another dream/visitation with him.

  180. Hannah says

    I think I may have had a visitation dream however I am not sure. My Grandad died in the early hours one morning about a month ago, it was a very long and tiring day that day and my emotions were very sporadic. That night it took a while to get to sleep but when i did it was a very deep sleep. I had a dream where my 2nd cousin came to me, my cousin died suddenly when I was 2 (18 years ago) and I have no memory of him. He was my Grandads nephew and was extremely close to my Dad and my Uncles (his 1st cousins). My cousin was jokingly described as “the 4th son” by my Nan and Grandad as he had taken it upon himself to move in as a teenager as he loved it in their house. When he came to me I can only remember seeing his face, which looked exactly like a picture of him that is in my Nan and Grandads house. When he spoke he sounded just like my Dad. He told me that my Grandad was with him now, and that he was fine, everything was going to be okay, and he was safe. I woke up with a sense of peace, that although he is gone he is still ‘around’ or ‘watching over’ like he hasn’t really left, only for the time being.That was a month ago now and I still have that feeling of calm about his passing, I feel protected. Im not sure if it was a visitation dream or if I was just dreaming about a situation I would like to happen, as I would love him to be safe and happy and having fun with my cousin as they were close.

  181. says

    I have a few questions about the visitation dreams. Recently 3 of my friends had died in a car crash, and Ive had a few dreams in the last 2 months,
    The first dream: my friend(the driver) who I’ve been friends with for 14 years, was sat in a car with me and I had asked him ‘how are you?’ And he replied ‘I’m fine! How are you?’ And I said I was fine but carried on to ask ‘are you sure you’re ok?’ And he was certain that he was ok, and then he hugged me and said ‘I lobe you’ and that was it, does anyone think this could have been him telling me he’s ok? Because this was a few days after he had passed away
    The second dream: my friend(the girl) was my friends girlfriend was sat in my house with me, and she was sat on my lap saying ‘I miss my mum and dad, I want to see my mum and dad’ and was crying, do you think this could have been a visitation?
    Also, the third friend hasn’t been in any of my dreams, do you think there is a reason for this?
    I would love for someone to reply and let me know what they think so I have some closure on my dreams.

  182. Alicia says

    My ex step dad committed suicide a few weeks ago. It was unexpected and we don’t know why he did it. (We still kept in touch even though they got divorced). In those few weeks I’ve had 2 dreams. I don’t know what deams they are.
    The first one was a bout a week after the incident. In my dream I was making into a dug out with my team (I play softball. He used tobbe my coach in little league). He comes out of the dug out to talk to me. It seems like his lips are moving but I don’t hear anything. Then I woke up because my boyfriend moved in his sleep. I got upset and started crying because I felt that he was really there but in reality he wasn’t. I felt that he was trying to tell me something important. Was he?
    The next dream I had this morning. I don’t know where the setting was but there was a lot of people and we were outside. So I have a 2 year old sister that I was watching play outside. I went to walk in this house looking ting when I heard my sister repeat something like an announcer said. And then said ‘dese nuts’ (from a new viral video going around) and me being 17, thought it was hilarious so I ran into the house thing to tell my mom what happened and as I’m telling her (she’s outside the doorway in her kneesblike she’s cleaning something up) I see Jeff(step dad) playing with my sister on his hands and knees chasing her and her laughing histarically running to me and hugging my leg. I look at Jeff he looks up at me and gives me the biggest smile. I smiled back and I think I waved. I was like is this real? Is he really here right now? And noticed my mom didn’t see him and I saw his foot go through my mom’s leg like a ghost would. And instantly started crying alerting my mom so she looked up at me and was like what’s wrong? I tried telling her while I was crying. And he disappeared. And then I woke up. by he way i knew it was Jeff who told my sister to say dese nuts because he’s mischievous like that. I woke up and started crying again. When I woke up though I had this feeling that he was trying to tell me watching over my sister or that my sister could see him in real life. Even though that’s not his daughter but he’s met her before. What do you think?

  183. Meagan says

    Hi, very recently I had a dream where I showing a very distant family member (senior) who passed away a few months ago a house that my husband I really want to buy. We are now awaiting bond approval. When I showing her the house in the dream (with all excitement), she didn’t seem too impressed. But that’s where the dream ended. I had a lot of respect for this lady and she did a lot for me during my very dark hours. Does this mean she came to tell me good news? Or was she just visiting to let me know that she cares? I was unable to go to her funeral.

  184. Meagan says

    Hi, very recently I had a dream where I showing a very distant family member (senior) who passed away a few months ago a house that my husband I really want to buy. We are now awaiting bond approval. When I showing her the house in the dream (with all excitement), she didn’t seem too impressed. But that’s where the dream ended. I had a lot of respect for this lady and she did a lot for me during my very dark hours. Does this mean she came to tell me good news? Or was she just visiting to let me know that she cares? I was unable to go to her funeral.

  185. Astral says

    I had a visitation dream from a very famous person (i dont want to mention who however). I got interested into his music and i just asked if i could meet him in dreams. After two nights he came to me. the dream was so real and also it later came true. A musician came to me and told me he visited me because he had the ability to, i asked him why he cared about me because he is so famous and i am not even such a big fan… He said it is not important how long i am his fan and that he just could reach me so he felt like taking to me. The dream was sooo real, a guy was staring into my eyes and i felt like totally squeezed in the corner so i can get his message clearly. Also, he said he will stay at my neighbor’s flat for seven days and after that he will go somewhere else. At first the part about my neighbor didnt make sense to me. Until…. seven days after the dream a woman from the flat a musician in my dream mentioned about died. I was in a deep shock… So again, before my sleep i asked the musician if we could meet one more time …. and two days later he came into my dream again. This time he didnt speak verbally and i totally got his message only by looking into his eyes which were more than alive… As i understood he said “yes, it is really me and i am nearby, however if you dont have an important reason to visit, better dont do that, however i am sending you huge love and i will always be nearby”. I felt such a loving and calming feeling in both dreams! And it felt so real… His eyes were amazing and his aura was so soothing… So i am sending him huge thanks and love also :) I am so proud he visited me, it was a life changing experience.

  186. Ryan says

    I just did a Google search for ” I touched my loved ones hand in a dream and it felt real” which lead me to this site. When I was 16 I dated someone who had a major impact on my life. I was in love but it just didn’t work out with us but we remained friends. When I turned 18 I moved out of state and was gone for 2 1/2 years. During this time my friend/ex had a stroke and when I moved back I found out that he passed away due to complications. I was unable to attend the funeral and felt bad for a long time. It has been almost 11 years and last night I had a dream that I was in the hospital (not sure why) but I walk into a room and see a nurse sitting a desk filling out paper work. As soon as I enter the room the nurse turns around and smiles at me, and it was him! I felt the joy in my heart and reached out to him. As he got closer I said I miss you and he reached out and as he said I miss you too, his hand connected with mine. I felt the warmth and pressure of his touch and it was so real I immediately woke up and began to cry. I got down on my knees and prayed for his protection and thanked God for his many blessings, especially my senses. I will never forget that moment or the feeling.

    • Alicia says

      I’ve had 2 visitation dreams through out my life. But my dreams were a bit different from others. My cousin died when I was 16 and I’m 22 now. I’ve had her come to me in my dream. Though she was sobbing and telling me that she didn’t want to die. That she didn’t mean to. She told me to tell our family that she is sorry for passing. Kinda freaked me out. This dream is a couple years old but I still remember it as if I had this dream last night.
      When I was 11 years old my grandmother passed away. Around 2 years ago she came to me. I was much aware she was already dead. I even asked her how is she here how am I talking to her but she ignored my questions and got straight to why she came to me. She was sitting in her favorite seat in her kitchen. I remember seeing my uncle raking leaves in her back yard and her finally answering one of my questions. I asked what is uncle mike doing here since I knew he lived in California. She told me that he will be with her soon and that he will be next to go. Couple years later this passed January he passed away.

  187. Kimberley says

    My earliest encounter with a visitation from someone who recently passed away was before my memory allows me to go. My mom and her mom told me about it. I was around one year old and I woke up saying, “Bob, Bob, Bob, etc.” and not ten minutes later my grandmother got a call that her best friend Bob had died.

    The one that really made me believe that these are real “visitations” and really try to open myself up is this.

    I was lucky enough to spend two weeks with my grandmother a month before she passed away. During that time together, she pointed to a ring that had been my great-great grandmothers. Her mother brought it with her to London when she escaped Nazi Germany. She said, “When I pass, this will be yours.”

    So a month later, I was in the middle of a lucid dream and it just stopped. I see an apparition of what I knew was my grandmother and feel a ring in my finger. I hear the words, “This is now yours.” As soon as she said that my mom woke me up to tell me my grandmother passed away.

    I kind of forgot about this “visitation dream” until we found out what she left us in the will. She left each grandchild a bit of money, and the only other thing she left to me was that ring.

    **side note**
    Two and a half years after her death, I traveled to London to visit my dad. It was my birthday, and he had gathered her purses and told me he had checked all the pockets but if I wanted any of them I could have a look. I picked out a beautiful little purse, reached in, and there was Happy Birthday confetti.

    If that isn’t her coming to me, I don’t know what is.

  188. Kellie Kebe says


    My boyfriend died a month ago in a car accident. We had been seperated for four months and had just gotten back together. His death was sudden from a car accident. Imediately after his death some things came to light that he lied to me about and some of these things added salt to my already wounded heart. But what could I do but talk to him aloud about how I felt about what he did to me. So I had a dream that I went to Nates house and that he immediately started crying to me and sayinf that he is so sorry for hurting me and that he loves me and that I am his best friend to please forgive him for taking me for granted. It felt so real, I know that it was him and I woke up feeling peace in my heart. You see I questioned his love for me and he came to answer me.

  189. Brenda Lee Johnson says

    My very dear friend and brother in law died recently, on Palm Sunday. We were best friends for thirty years. Last week I dreamt that he woke up after being dead several weeks. He was on a table, like at the coroners or something. He looked healthy and was smiling his beautiful contagious smile. I hugged him so hard and I still feel like I’ve really hugged him. I asked the Dr how could this be and he said its rare but it can happen. Something then woke me and I can’t stop feeling that there was more to it that I missed for waking. Its the only dream I’ve seen him in since he passed. I feel inside like I should understand what it meant but cannot grasp it. That’s very frustrating.

  190. Kristen says

    I have dreams about my best friend who passed away in March…and they arent always the best. But I know even in my dream shes passed away..

  191. Liv says

    I myself have encountered what you call a Visitation Dream. I am 13 years old and I had never properly met my dad until about 7 years ago because for 5 years of my life my dad wasn’t around. Anyway, when I started to see my dad again, he told me that his dad (my granddad) had died when my dad was only 13 years old. Because I had only just met my dad, I didn’t know much at all about his family and this information was new to me. I had never seen a picture of any sort of my granddad, all I knew was that he had the same distinct facial features as my dad. Anyway, one night when I was about 6 or 7, I dreamt that I was lying down and next to me was a little blonde boy. I haven’t yet mentioned that I have a 6 year old brother and at the time of this dream, he wasn’t born and he has blonde hair too and is little so maybe this was a sign that a blonde little boy was going to come into my life. So there I was, cuddling and kissing this little boy (not in that way!) and I look up to the sky as it was a nice, sunny day and a cloud approached. In the clouds, was a man with mousy brown hair, and is a spitting image of my dad. I was quite startled to see this man watching over me in the dream and I said ‘Who are you?’ He replied ‘Don’t worry, it is just your granddad Michael’ and then it ended. It was so vivid and since then I have not been able to get this dream out of my head. I told my dad about the dream the next time I saw him and being so young I was oblivious to all this dream visitation business. My dad explained to me that the deceased could reach you in your dreams to pass on messages and simply communicate with you. He then asked me what my granddad looked like in the dream. I described the features and then my dad showed me a picture of my granddad. It was the same man in my dream. Could this just be a coincidence or could me dead grandfather have actually visited me in my dream now that he knew me and my dad were back on track, maybe he thought this was his chance to talk to me for the first time as I never knew of him beforehand? I guess I will never know. Considering I have never met you, RIP granddad and I hope you have the power to visit me again one day. I wish I could’ve had the chance to meet you, I love you very much <3 x x x x x x

  192. says

    On the night my old boyfriend died I dreamed of him. Before I even had found out of his passing. The dream sequence went on all night, I woke up 3 times and each time went right back into the dream. I remember him telling me he always loved me. When I awoke that morning I felt very peaceful and calm. I had been feeling very on edge and concerned about him as if I knew something was wrong.
    It was very overwhelming once I learned of his death.

  193. Suzanne says

    My mother passed away a little over two years ago, my dad is still alive though. I dreamt last night that I was looking at a baby picture of myself and all of a sudden both my parents appear in the picture, as they were when they were first married, very young. The weird part is that they were moving in the picture! I had a similar dream about my uncle that passed away 10 years ago. I was looking at a picture of him, and he started talking to me from the picture. Does anyone know what this means?

  194. Erin says

    Ok im not sure what kind of dream mine was. So, my grammy passed away when I was 8, we were very close and she was my best friend. I took her death really hard. Now I am 19 and I have never had dreams with her in it till last night. In the dream I was my age now and in my backyard and we were having a family party for a reason I don’t know and I looked over and saw her sitting down talking and in my dream I knew she was dead in real life. I walked over to her and just sat on her lap and cried and told her I loved her. I even smelt her scent and everything and buried my face into her neck. It didn’t last long but when I woke up I was crying a little. Is that a visitation dream or just like a regular one?

  195. Emma says

    i have heard my dead bro since his b-day has passed i kept on hearing hellos and hi’s i think he is trying to communicate with his younger sister that’s all your not going ccrrraaaazyyy i promise

    • Vicki says

      In June, 2009 one of my older brothers passed away. He had been ill, but did not expect his death at that point…in fact he had just been released from the hospital. Two nights after his death and the evening before the funeral I dreamed that I was in a room alone, but suddenly was being backed into a corner by a figure coming toward me. As the figure came close to me I developed a great fear because I knew it was my brother that had just passed and just kept repeating over and over that it could not be so. As he came closer I could tell that his appearance was as he had been 20 years earlier and he looked wonderful. At that point I had reached the wall that I was backing into and he had reached his left hand out for me. As my fear began to lift, I really do not remember if I reached out for his hand, but he spoke and all he said was “Vicki, Everything is O.K.” and with that he was gone. I woke immediately feeling as though this was his way of telling me goodbye and to not worry about him at that point and for that matter, not to fear death. Those feelings flushed over me as to what the message truly was. As it turned out this was not only a comfort to me, but to his wife as well. I was able to give a eulogy at the funeral without any preparation time at all. I was asked to do so 10 minutes before the service. Usually it is difficult to remember dreams, but my memory of this is just as clear as if it happened last night.
      I’m assuming this is a visitation dream for real. Am I right?

  196. Miguel says

    I’m actually on this website for a friend who had a diseased
    loved one visit him in a dream. My friend really confided
    and trusted in me to help interpret his experience but the only truth from knowledge I could speak was that he had the dream because he was open to having it. I knew of visitation dreams, but couldn’t articulate on the subject.
    Thank you for creating a guide that helps identify just what kind of dream it really could have been…
    I will share with him the checklist you’ve made along with the notes he took when he awoke from his dream, then we can really sort it out.

  197. Madelin says

    My Dad passed a month ago, very sudden, not sick, diagnosed of Liver Cancer on May 7th, 2015 and did not reach June 3rd appointment to
    start treatment, he passed away May 26th. Pain free as if he was going
    into a deep sleep, healthy, happy, family, hard-working, loving husband,
    father and grandfather. Never drank, no drugs, nothing, very sad to say
    my father was 66 with a family of 3 girls, leaving my little sister of 20. He
    was not ready to go, was very afraid, we were all there at the hospital
    at hospice still talking although sleeping, his blood pressure began to
    go down and once the priest gave his blessings at 6:04pm, my Dad gave his
    last slow breath at 6:12pm and he said his inner goodbye. My mother, my
    two sisters, his mother and aunt where next to his bed, I had step out site the room to talk to some when that happen and my brother in-law called me when I ran inside and threw myself into my father. I felt his soul go throw my body, I stayed hugging my father for 20 minutes could not believe
    what had happen why so soon. As prepared as I thought I was, I was angry,
    upset, I had been 20 days next to death bed, 2 days in the hospital with
    my sisters and in his last breath I was not next to him. The nurse told me
    I felt what is called “outer body departure” when the body shuts down, the
    soul departs from the body that can take seconds. I will never forget that
    moment, I prepared myself for a month spiritually, tried to mediate, I
    receive revelations through my dreams. Easter weekend I had a dream
    with my mother and grandmother that we were in a dark cemetery with
    iron doors in the entrance as I was walking in my grandmother that passed
    15 years ago says don’t step on any of the dead be respectful. The key to the dream was that my mother is still alive and I saw her but I hear from behind my grandmother that has passed. In our latin religion, dreaming
    with a loved one and dead one or ill is usually telling you the oppose is ill
    and the cemetery was the sign that my father’s death was very close. The
    iron doors are the doors of the cemetery where he was buried and the stepping on the buried dead meant illness to my father, the dream being
    at night meant the illness was not good which was “Cancer” stage 4 terminal. Last Friday June 26th made one month of his passing, my daughter had a dream the night before, my father came real in the dream
    to say to her in my mother’s room to her he misses us like crazy, she replied
    we love you and miss you too abuelo. I am in the hospital with my husband
    he had major brain surgery on the 13th of this month right after my father’s death. My Dad revealed as if he was not dead with me and my young sister
    in a clothing store he had opened and it seamed so real, I know it was because he was trying to tell me something, my father, husband and I worked in the business together for 15 years. He knows now we need
    him in the business and with my husband in the hospital I am left to run
    the business all alone. Love ones communicate through dreams, sometimes the dreams come to you before they actually happen, even
    when they seen crazy, they all have a mean and they do come true!

  198. Vicki says

    In June, 2009 one of my older brothers passed away. He had been ill, but did not expect his death at that point…in fact he had just been released from the hospital. Two nights after his death and the evening before the funeral I dreamed that I was in a room alone, but suddenly was being backed into a corner by a figure coming toward me. As the figure came close to me I developed a great fear because I knew it was my brother that had just passed and just kept repeating over and over that it could not be so. As he came closer I could tell that his appearance was as he had been 20 years earlier and he looked wonderful. At that point I had reached the wall that I was backing into and he had reached his left hand out for me. As my fear began to lift, I really do not remember if I reached out for his hand, but he spoke and all he said was “Vicki, Everything is O.K.” and with that he was gone. I woke immediately feeling as though this was his way of telling me goodbye and to not worry about him at that point and for that matter, not to fear death. Those feelings flushed over me as to what the message truly was. As it turned out this was not only a comfort to me, but to his wife as well. I was able to give a eulogy at the funeral without any preparation time at all. I was asked to do so 10 minutes before the service. Usually it is difficult to remember dreams, but my memory of this is just as clear as if it happened last night.
    I’m assuming this is a visitation dream for real. Am I right?

  199. jason says

    My mom died about 2 weeks ago, last night i had a dream that she was in a white room playing with my daughter. Then she told me to give her a hug, i did and she said she would always be here and i could come anytime i wanted to see her. It felt completly real, i could even feel the hug, then she started to fade and i woke up.

  200. Sb says

    I’m not sure if I’m actually having visitation dreams or not, or whether it’s just my mind’s way of processing things. A few days ago I learned that a boy (I’m 17) in my class at school had committed suicide. I was incredibly shocked at the news because he never seemed outwardly sad or unhappy but in fact seemed the opposite. However reading these comments has made me doubt whether its a visitation dream because it all seemed very real; his voice wa real and he was there wearing ordinary clothes and he looke fine and I even gave him a hug and he felt real, but in reality I barely knew him. I new to speak to yes, and I would always say hello but in my dream I felt very close to him and I just wanted to make him feel better because it was such a waste for him to die like that and it breaks my heart to know that he felt so alone that he had to do that.
    Just in need of some clarification or whether it’s just my brain dealing with it. Thanks.

  201. Grethel says

    My grandma passed away 2 years ago and the way it happened it was a very traumatic experience for my family. We were all very close to my grandma , specially my dad, his brother, his son and I.
    After she passed away my dad and uncle started drinking a lot more and things got really bad so I pushed them away and stopped talking to my dad and everyone from that side of the family. One night I had a dream where I was in my dads car and my grandma was outside the door but giving me her back and in front of her were my dad and uncle and I could just hear my grandma yelling at them and them feeling guilty and I could her name and try to open my door to hug her but it was like she couldn’t hear me and then I woke up crying.
    After a year and half I started talking to my dad and family again and I had another dream but in this one my grandma , my cousin and I were hiking and at the top she reached out and gave me a hand to get to the top and when I got up there she hugged me and told me she loved me and everything was going to be ok.

  202. Serena says

    My ex boyfriend Ryan passed away may 8th of this year… He died of a drug overdose. I never got to tell him that I still care about him and love him… When I found out he passed my heart dropped and it felt like my whole world had ended, I traveled 5 hours on train to return back to my home town for the wake… It was traumatizing, seeing his life less body laying there, it just broke me. I was in love with him. Him and I had went through a lot with each other. People told me that saying goodbye to him at the casket would help with closure, but it didn’t… I wanted to say it directly to him. So now for the past month about, ive been having dreams of seeing him, I indentify with the fact that hes dead and its only his spirit… But in my dream I am the only one who can see/talk to him not even his family… Me and him talk and hangout but I always feel really confused in the dream, I don’t know why…. Also him and I will sometimes make love in the dream… I don’t know what to think of this dream… Someone have any experience in this area??

  203. Vimal says

    I had a dream where my grand Ma came to me and showed her new room and said I will let be here now and I have everything , it was a room with white tiles on the floor and walls and the bed was made of tiles as well she showed me a garden from the rooms window , she said this is very comfortable place and I will stay here now I asked her to come with me she made me sit next to her on her bed as said its peaceful here , my wife woke me up and she was crying and said that grandma passed away . I was in another country when my grand Ma passed away and I was made aware of this after 3 days of her gone but she told me she is at peace at her new place before I got the news. I know this can’t be a coinsident it was my grandma who came in really and told me this as she wanted me to know she is not in pain. I know people don’t believe this as real but I know it was for real. I miss u dadima

  204. Angela says

    I just had the most disturbing dream I think ever had. Thw dream went on all entire night. If i got up for a drink . Of water it would :continue on. It takes places somewhere i have never beeb. My dad is there. In all of my dreams I never know where I am or how I get there. So, the first thing that I remember that I am trying to sleep and he keeps yelling to wake me up. I am sleeping in a room, this room installs place that i have been before. I am woke up by him yelling my name very loudly “Angela”. When I wake up in the dream he starts by telling me, “I told you that I would haunt you. That you were never going to get away. I just started screaming and trying to run away. The next part I remember is he is trying to enter my body. I am yelling, NO NO you are not getting me. Then things in the room start flying around and he gets a crazy. Screaming and trying to get away. The next part of the dream is he trying to get into my body. I was tied up to a bed and it was like he was a demon. I woke up screaming. Right before woke up I felt something cold touch my arm. Is that possible? What does all this mean?

  205. Cc says

    My very close friend died a few weeks ago at 19. He had a lot of drug problems and he was very depressed. I felt very guilty after his death because I saw him the day he died and all though I hugged him and told him I loved him and so did others that day, it was not enough. However, I had a dream last night that I was canoeing in a river and I canoed right up to a group of people heading up the river. He was at the back of the pack. I shouted at them to wait and he turned around. He looked like he did when we first met, healthy and happy and clean. He was wearing bright clothes and he seemed very peaceful. I gave him a flower and I told him I felt very lost and alone and sad. He said something, I can’t remember what, all I know was that his voice was very calm and collected, unlike his voice when I knew him. He then hugged me and I cried for a long time. Then he turned around and continued down the river and I continued the dream and other things happened. I feel more sure but stil sad. I hope it was a visitation.

  206. Leah says

    When I was 16 I met someone who had the most amazing impact on my life. I can say I truly loved him. We broke up before I turned 18!but had remained friends. I haven’t spoke to him in about a year, but learned he just died at the hands of someone else. We both had moved on in our lives, me married with a child, and him with his on and off relationships. After he passed I cried for hours and often thought of him throughout the day.. Last night in my dream he was right there. He hugged me, and we just talked for what seemed like hours. After he had left it showed me when I got married. it was the most amazing sense of calm I had ever experienced. I woke up feeling so at peace. I know I will always love him and cherish our memories together. He taught me what love is and I’ll never forget him. This dream gave me my sense of closure with him passing.

  207. Laurie says

    I have many many dreams of my family that has passed, but the one that sticks out so clearly was a few ago my father in law passed away I was very close to him and my mother in law even after my marriage ended with there son. He passed away on March and his wife’s birthday sept and there wedding anniversary Oct – it was a few days before my mother in laws birthday the first year he had been gone and I dreamt he came to me to give me. Message for his wife. He wanted me to go to a specific store (bobs tobacco ) and buy a gift for Alice (his wife ) from him. He said it needed to have leaves on it and have gold. I woke up feeling very confused as to whether it was just a dream or a message – so I googled bobs tobacco and sure enough we had a store downtown. I went to find the store and the store was closed :( so I decided to take a peak in the window and OMG on the window of this store that I didn’t even know existed there was a dark blue designer plate with gold trim and gold leaves. Well I went to work freaked right out and waited for the store to open I took my break and went right down to the store and bought the plate while I was at the counter I also seen a picture of wolves ( he loved wolves everything he collected was wolves ) in the back of the picture was gold leaves .. well I bought both lol I wasn’t taking any chances just in case it was an actual message. When I gave Alice her gifts I explained my dream a couple days before. She burst into tears and said that it was Ralph and he must have wanted me to get the gift to her. She told me they used to hold hands and walk by that store and go into to look around all the time, and that Ralph knew that fall was her most favourite season because she loves the beautiful gold coloured leaves that she can see (she is almost completely blind btw and can only see certain things.

    Now that is true love if it was an actual message from Ralph for her through me.

    Since that dream I have dreamt of my departed family so many times with messages for me and / or my family.
    I would love to know if these were real messages from them.. Makes me feel very peaceful to think I still have a connection with them.
    Or if they are just dreams

  208. Annelise Sorensen says

    I’ve had visitation dreams ever since I can remember. My mom would tell me when I was about 3 or 4 ” just don’t be afraid ” One of my favorite visits was from my best friends husband. He passed away from non- Hogkins lymphoma. Soon after I had a visit, or I had visited him. I was in a hospital, but there were no ceilings. Just a very bright golden light. I opened the door to a room, and there get was (my friends husband). I remember being mad at him because he wasn’t sick looking at all. I told him ” you wait ….I’m telling Lisa you lied. Your not sick !” He said to me ” Tell Lisa I’m OK” I still insisted he lied to us all. I told my friend, and later that day she was talking to one of her sons friends. He had mentioned to her that her husband had made a comment about her weight. (Not in a good way) She was so mad! she told me that when they meet up again. (When she passes) She was going to let him have it….This became something she wasn’t going to let go of. For the next 5 years, there wasn’t a week that would go by without her bringing up how mad she was at him for saying that, and how he’s got it coming. Well unexpectedly Lisa had a stroke, and passed away. About a week later, I was woke up in bed by someone rubbing my back. I looked and it was her. So of course the first thing I asked her was did you tell him off?….did you give it to him? She looked at me and smiled with a very calm voice and said ” we don’t do that here”.

  209. susana de la cerda says

    Last night I had a dream about my father that has been dead for the past 2 years. My father past in a house fire. Never had I dram about him till yesterday. My vision was that I was at my moms present home and I was crying a lot kneeling down in the living room by the sofa and after crying a lot I raise up my head and I see my father in a sofa in the corner of the dinning room. I could see him burned from face as I got closer he became more clear like when he was young. in our conversation we discussed what was he doing there and he didn’t even know that he was dead. He looked so healthy, which he wasn’t when he passed he couldn’t walk was very weak that was one of the reasons he was not able to get up from bed during the fire. My concern during the conversation was how is the other side. Don’t know why I was so curious. Well he started telling me that it started that it was a man with a beard and that he would direct you to different areas or sides. I wish I would of finish hearing until my son woke me up… I wish we would of had a longer conversation it had been 2 years. (I cant remember if I was crying because something happen to my mother, but then my mother comes into the picture and she was suppose to be out of town at my sister house.) I hope that doesn’t mean something is going to happen to my mother.

  210. tammy says

    I had a dream of my mom she passed away in March in my dream we sat and talked while I sat in my bed and she said she needed to tell me something important and then I woke up and every time I fell asleep the dream would repeat itself and I would always wake up before she could tell me what she wanted to tell me. I don’t know what that means and I wish I knew why I kept waking up and what she wanted to tell me.

  211. Mia says

    My grandfather past away about two years ago and i had been having vivid dreams involving him ever since but when i woke up i had a feeling the same as i get when i watch a horror movie rather than love and peace keep in Ind that i was 12 at that time. Is this normal?

  212. says

    My father just recently passed away. ( July 30 2015 ) I have been having reoccurring dreams that I see him but he doesn’t recognize me. Most of the dreams occur in a setting that is uncharacteristic for him to be at. I’m very curious to know what this might mean. Thank you

  213. Tarina says

    This December will be the 10 year anniversary of the my college boyfriend passing. Over the last 10 years I have had several dreams about him- which I believe to be visitation dreams. Every time he visits we are aware of him being “gone”. Sometimes we just stare at each other, sometimes I’m asking where he has been, sometimes I smell his skin, and sometimes he gives me messages. I’ve never had a dream since he’s been gone that he didn’t pass away and that we made more memories and/or lived happily ever after. Each and every dream there is knowledge that he is gone and that we’re “spending time together”. Last night he shared something with me that made me feel a little anxious- he told me “don’t get in the car, just don’t get in the car to go to the hospital”- and he seemed to be in a hurry. This is the first time he actually spoke to me outside of discussing him being gone or how he feels about me. Thoughts?

  214. Marcus Bouley says

    Had the craziest dream…
    I was outside my body looking down on me. It was dark and cold. I wasn’t looking the greatest. Then I all of this sudden blacked out. I soon opened my eyes and found myself at Grandma Wilber’s porch. She was down on the deck putting her feet in the water. I was standing next to the rain collector, when I looked up, she was waving me down to come next to her. It felt so real walking to her. I could feel the warmth of the sun touching my skin, the wind blowing through my hair, the grass and acorns I was stepping on. As I walked to her I felt myself stop a little, but I continued my way. I sat next to her. I had also put my feet in the water. Grandma had grabbed my hand and looked at me with her old eyes. When I looked at her she began to say something I couldn’t understand. It was muffled, like I had had water in my ear. Then I woke up… Sweating, tearing and somewhat panicking. It all moved too fast.

  215. Lena says

    I had a dream last night / early this morning about my best friend that was killed in April and we were both happy we were at a job setting talking and laughing about his son playing football and how my son is playing football and then he turned and said to me I love you and I always will and from here on out just be happy!

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